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  Most Teens Feel They Get Trust They've Earned
 
  By Linda Lyons  
     
 

Nearly three-quarters (73%) of 13 to 17 year old respondents in a recent Gallup Youth Survey* say they get the trust they deserve from their parents or guardians. Just 21% say their parents or guardians don't trust them as much as they should.

In Their Own Words
Gallup also asked teens to give their reasons for answering the
question the way they did. The following comments are only a few examples of teens who talk about the mutual level of trust between themselves and their parents
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• I have never given my parents a reason not to trust me.
• I earned their respect and trust so they know I'm not going to do
anything I can't tell them about.
• My parents trust me a lot. When I do screw up, I tell them so I can keep their trust.
• They know I’m responsible & that I’m able to make my own decisions.

 
     
 

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  The minority of teen respondents who say they do not share an acceptable level of trust with their parents have their own
reasons for responding the way they did.
• My father won’t allow me to drive until I'm 18 or be driven by other
teenagers & won’t let me out of the house unless he's taking me.
• They put too much trust in me and it is a big disappointment to them
when I do something wrong.
• My parents are paranoid about my doing something disastrous if
I'm with my friends.
• My parents do not give me enough credit for behaving well.
 
 

Trust & Perceptions of Freedom
Seventy-three percent of teen respondents tell Gallup that, in general, teens have enough or more than enough freedom in their lives (see "Freedom Rings for Most U.S. Teens" in Related Items). Respondents who express this are more likely than respondents who feel teens don't receive enough freedom to say they, themselves, get the trust they deserve from their parents. Eighty-three percent of teens who say teens have the right amount or too much freedom say they receive the appropriate amount of trust. In contrast, only 48% of respondents who say that teens generally don't have enough freedom say that their parents trust them enough.

"I think with all the news propaganda, they see all teens as juvenile delinquents," says another young respondent, referring to his perception of his parents' view of teenagers. These are, perhaps, words of some wisdom from a teen who apparently feels he's more trustworthy than his parents give him credit. It is true that bad news travels fast and far, and the daily news is proof of that.

Bottom Line
According to George Gallup Jr., who has been studying high school teens since 1977, "American teens report that by and large they are happy and excited about the future, feel very close to their families, see college in their future, say they are likely to marry, want to have children, are satisfied with their personal lives, desire to reach the top of their chosen careers, expect to live to a ripe-old age, and want to experience spiritual growth in their lives." It's no wonder their parents trust them.

*These results are based on mail and Web surveys with a randomly selected national sample of 549 teenagers in the Gallup Poll Panel of households, aged 13 to 17, conducted April 15 to May 22, 2005. For results based on this sample, one can say with 95% confidence that the maximum error attributable to sampling and other random effects is ±5 percentage points. In addition to sampling error, question wording and practical difficulties in conducting surveys can introduce error or bias into the findings of public opinion polls.

 

 

    Tips for Parents:
Courses Your Teenager Should Take
To Prepare For College and Workforce Training
   
       
    Too many students graduate from high school unprepared for the next step—college, training programs, or work. Why? Largely because they haven’t taken the right classes. As a parent, you can help by encouraging your teenager to take the courses that are most likely to prepare him or her for success after high school. A new report from ACT identifies these specific high school courses and course sequences. To be well prepared, your teen should take the following classes:    
       
 

~ Math ~
Algebra 1, geometry, algebra 2 and at least one upper-level course such as trigonometry, pre-calculus, calculus, etc.

~ Science ~
Biology, chemistry and physics

~ English ~
English 9 through
English 12

~ Foreign Language ~
1 to 2 years of a foreign language

~ Social Studies ~
3 or more years of social studies coursework

 
   
   
         
     

The ACT report also suggests that the benefits of taking certain courses can overlap into other subject areas. For example, taking an upper-level math class can help improve a student’s readiness for the rigor of college biology as well as that of college algebra. Similarly, taking an upper-level science class can help prepare students to succeed in both college biology and college algebra. And, taking at least one year of a foreign language can increase a student’s chances of success in college English composition beyond taking the high school English course sequence alone.

For more information visit www.act.org.

   

    Road Skillz    
    A DVD providing teen drivers with knowledge and skills to avoid accidents. Young professional drivers relay their own driving experiences and demonstrate the safest way for new drivers to respond to risky situations that can occur when driving. By incorporating the real life experiences of some of the best drivers in the country, plus an array of cool cars, CGI animation, MTV-style music, and cameo
appearances from celebrity drivers, Road Skillz also provides parents with a strong sense of comfort and security knowing that their teenage son or daughter is better prepared to handle potentially dangerous driving situations. Road Skillz is donating 5% of all profits to non-profit organizations that provide teen driving training and education. SRP $19.95. www.roadskillz.com.
   
         

 

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