Life Is Grand: Culture in the Fifth Borough with the Grandchildren

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One of the grandest things about being a grandparent is an opportunity to share the things we are passionate about with a new audience. When my own children were young, I dragged them through museums, mostly on Mother’s Day or my birthday–occasions when I got to pick the activity.

Although they complained that all the Monets at MOMA looked alike to them, they could identify a French Impressionist piece of art from a mile away. We exposed the children to music by playing “Name That Tune” in the car to Rolling Stones or Beatles songs to make sure Rock and Roll would not be lost on the next generation. My husband took our kids to sports events, even in diapers. They were exposed to books, nature, and other interests to help develop their curious minds. And now we get to do it all over again!

This time, we know what works best and can provide input their parents cannot. We have the benefit of interacting on a level that is removed from the day-to-day responsibilities of parents. We are now the family historians and will add a rich sense of family tradition to our grandchild’s life. Also, we will give our young ones positive attitudes towards aging. Something, unfortunately, my generation did not always experience. My own grandmother, dressed in black with her gray hair rolled in a bun under a hairnet, seemed ancient and sedentary at age 70.

So, the best grandparenting activities flow naturally from the interests of both the grandparents and the grandchildren. The good news is that you don’t have to leave Staten Island to find cultural things to do. Many Staten Island grandparents take the kids to local museums, neighborhood theater, and historical landmarks without having to leave the borough!

Visit S.I. Parent online (www.siparent.com/cultural-centers) to see a list of Staten Island Cultural Centers. Check out gems such as Sandy Ground Historical Society, where children will learn about its instrumental role on the Underground Railroad. Also visit The Garibaldi-Meucci Museum, home of the true inventor of the telephone–Antonio Meucci.

Remember, concerts, plays, movies, science centers such as those at the Staten Island Children’s Museum, provide opportunities to be together and to exchange ideas and opinions. A simple ride on the Staten Island Ferry turns fun into education as you are presented with an up-close view of the magnificent Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island. Read up ahead of time and impress your grandchildren with a few facts and trivia.

Do not underestimate the value of educating our children about recent history. A short distance from the St. George Ferry Terminal stands Postcards, a minimalist marble sculpture stretching 30 feet in the air. This understated memorial to the 9/11 World Trade Center tragedy was erected to honor the lives of the 274 Staten Island victims. Stand directly between the two structures to see across the water to the exact location of the former Twin Towers.

If you only have a short amount of time to spend together, simply going to parks or walking in the neighborhood can be both fun and educational. Bring binoculars on walks; kids love the adventure of seeing nature up close or landscapes in the distance.

Regardless of a child’s age, there are endless ways to have fun with the grandchildren. Every age offers its own challenge, as well as opportunity. It is a lot cheaper to entertain younger children than teens, but keep an open mind and look for various resources to accommodate everyone.

By Staten Islander Marianna Randazzo, author, educator, and a newly minted grandmother.



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  1. Greenbelt Peepers

    March 23 @ 9:45 am - 10:15 pm
    March 23, 2017  |  9:45 am - 10:15 pm
    Greenbelt Nature Center
    Through hands-on activities, crafts, and stories, two-year-old kids and their caregivers will become familiar with the sights and sounds of the forest. Space is limited. Registration requested. To register, please email naturecenter@sigreenbelt.org or call (718) 351-3450.
  2. Free Foreclosure Legal Services

    March 23 @ 10:00 am - 3:00 pm
    March 23, 2017  |  10:00 am - 3:00 pm
    Senator Andrew Lanza's District Office
    The Mobile Legal Help Center is a partnership between the New York Legal Assistance Group (NYLAG) and the New York State Courts Access to Justice Program that provides free foreclosure legal services to New Yorkers in need. Private meeting rooms
  3. Toddler/Preschool Story Time

    March 23 @ 10:30 am - 11:15 am
    March 23, 2017  |  10:30 am - 11:15 am
    St. George Library
    Songs, rhymes, picture book stories, & a craft activity are all part of this story time. Registration required.
  4. Toddler Storytime

    March 23 @ 11:00 am
    March 23, 2017  |  11:00 am - 11:00 am
    Todt Hill-Westerleigh Library
  5. Tot’s Time Plus

    March 23 @ 11:00 am - 1:00 pm
    March 23, 2017  |  11:00 am - 1:00 pm
    SI Children's Museum
    Your pre-schooler will create artwork, sing along and listen to stories.
  6. Greenbelt Tree Tots

    March 23 @ 11:00 am - 11:45 am
    March 23, 2017  |  11:00 am - 11:45 am
    Greenbelt Nature Center
    Through hands-on activities, crafts, and stories, children will become familiar with the sights and sounds of the forest. Space is limited. Registration required. Email nature center@sigreenbelt.org or by phone at 718-351-3450. Fee: $3 or Free for Greenbelt Conservancy Members.
  7. Bouncing Babies

    March 23 @ 11:15 am
    March 23, 2017  |  11:15 am - 11:15 am
    West New Brighton Library
    Come for playtime, stories and songs for babies and their caregivers.
  8. Baby Social

    March 23 @ 12:00 pm - 1:30 pm
    March 23, 2017  |  12:00 pm - 1:30 pm
    St. George Library
    Playground is too cold or it’s rainy? Do you and your baby need to get out of the house? Come to the library! A safe, indoor space for babies 0-23 months and their caregivers to play and socialize. Baby toys
  9. Reading & Technology Family Workshop

    March 23 @ 12:00 pm
    March 23, 2017  |  12:00 pm - 12:00 pm
    Huguenot Library
  10. Animal Time

    March 23 @ 2:00 pm - 3:00 pm
    March 23, 2017  |  2:00 pm - 3:00 pm
    SI Children's Museum
    Join us for this daily program and meet one of the animals from our living collection. Check the white board at the museum for details.