Life Is Grand: Culture in the Fifth Borough with the Grandchildren

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One of the grandest things about being a grandparent is an opportunity to share the things we are passionate about with a new audience. When my own children were young, I dragged them through museums, mostly on Mother’s Day or my birthday–occasions when I got to pick the activity.

Although they complained that all the Monets at MOMA looked alike to them, they could identify a French Impressionist piece of art from a mile away. We exposed the children to music by playing “Name That Tune” in the car to Rolling Stones or Beatles songs to make sure Rock and Roll would not be lost on the next generation. My husband took our kids to sports events, even in diapers. They were exposed to books, nature, and other interests to help develop their curious minds. And now we get to do it all over again!

This time, we know what works best and can provide input their parents cannot. We have the benefit of interacting on a level that is removed from the day-to-day responsibilities of parents. We are now the family historians and will add a rich sense of family tradition to our grandchild’s life. Also, we will give our young ones positive attitudes towards aging. Something, unfortunately, my generation did not always experience. My own grandmother, dressed in black with her gray hair rolled in a bun under a hairnet, seemed ancient and sedentary at age 70.

So, the best grandparenting activities flow naturally from the interests of both the grandparents and the grandchildren. The good news is that you don’t have to leave Staten Island to find cultural things to do. Many Staten Island grandparents take the kids to local museums, neighborhood theater, and historical landmarks without having to leave the borough!

Visit S.I. Parent online (www.siparent.com/cultural-centers) to see a list of Staten Island Cultural Centers. Check out gems such as Sandy Ground Historical Society, where children will learn about its instrumental role on the Underground Railroad. Also visit The Garibaldi-Meucci Museum, home of the true inventor of the telephone–Antonio Meucci.

Remember, concerts, plays, movies, science centers such as those at the Staten Island Children’s Museum, provide opportunities to be together and to exchange ideas and opinions. A simple ride on the Staten Island Ferry turns fun into education as you are presented with an up-close view of the magnificent Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island. Read up ahead of time and impress your grandchildren with a few facts and trivia.

Do not underestimate the value of educating our children about recent history. A short distance from the St. George Ferry Terminal stands Postcards, a minimalist marble sculpture stretching 30 feet in the air. This understated memorial to the 9/11 World Trade Center tragedy was erected to honor the lives of the 274 Staten Island victims. Stand directly between the two structures to see across the water to the exact location of the former Twin Towers.

If you only have a short amount of time to spend together, simply going to parks or walking in the neighborhood can be both fun and educational. Bring binoculars on walks; kids love the adventure of seeing nature up close or landscapes in the distance.

Regardless of a child’s age, there are endless ways to have fun with the grandchildren. Every age offers its own challenge, as well as opportunity. It is a lot cheaper to entertain younger children than teens, but keep an open mind and look for various resources to accommodate everyone.

By Staten Islander Marianna Randazzo, author, educator, and a newly minted grandmother.



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  1. Blood Drive

    December 12 @ 9:30 am - 3:00 pm
    December 12, 2017  |  9:30 am - 3:00 pm
    Staten Island Borough Hall
    Donors must be healthy, at least 16 years old (with parent’s written consent) and must weigh a minimum of 110 pounds. Donors should eat prior to donation and bring photo ID. No appointment necessary! Room 125
  2. Tot Time Tuesday

    December 12 @ 10:00 am - 11:30 am
    December 12, 2017  |  10:00 am - 11:30 am
    The Interpretive Center
    Learn about a new plant or animal every week by creating crafts, story time, and playing with other tots!
  3. Baby Space!

    December 12 @ 10:30 am - 11:30 am
    December 12, 2017  |  10:30 am - 11:30 am
    St. George Library
    Songs, rhymes, movements, and stories for babies! This program is geared toward confident walkers up to age 23 months. Please register for the first class you will attend.
  4. Toddler Time

    December 12 @ 10:30 am
    December 12, 2017  |  10:30 am - 10:30 am
    South Beach Library
    Enjoy interactive stories, action songs, and finger plays, and spend time with other toddlers in the neighborhood.
  5. Tot’s Time Plus

    December 12 @ 11:00 am - 1:00 pm
    December 12, 2017  |  11:00 am - 1:00 pm
    SI Children's Museum
    Your pre-schooler will create artwork, sing along and listen to stories.
  6. Tuesday Storytime

    December 12 @ 11:00 am
    December 12, 2017  |  11:00 am - 11:00 am
    Barnes & Noble
    Come on up to the Kids’ Department on the second floor and join us for a fun-filled Storytime!
  7. Science Time

    December 12 @ 2:00 pm - 3:00 pm
    December 12, 2017  |  2:00 pm - 3:00 pm
    SI Children's Museum
    Join us for this daily program on problem solving, inquiry and creative thinking. Activities include meetings animals from our Bugs exhibit, playing with solar cars, solving puzzle and games or building structures. Time is subject to change each day
  8. Afternoon Storytime & Craft

    December 12 @ 3:00 pm - 4:00 pm
    December 12, 2017  |  3:00 pm - 4:00 pm
    Port Richmond Library
    Children and their parents/caregivers are invited to join us for read aloud stories, followed by a craft!
  9. Homework Help

    December 12 @ 3:30 pm
    December 12, 2017  |  3:30 pm - 3:30 pm
    New Dorp Library
    High School volunteers are offering their services to help with reading and math! Reading: PreK -3rd grade, Math: PreK to 8th grade. First come first served. Sign up lists will start the day of each session when library first opens.

  10. Tween Tuesdays

    December 12 @ 3:30 pm
    December 12, 2017  |  3:30 pm - 3:30 pm
    New Dorp Library