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Enjoying Life as a Staten Island Grandparent

Enjoying Life as a Staten Island Grandparent

I’m not sure how the holidays crept up on me so quickly, but alas they are here. The family grows and that is a beautiful thing but the question remains: What do you give when you have no idea what to give?

If you are like me, I prefer to pick up gifts for the children and grandchildren throughout the year. As I travel or even locally, I inevitably find gifts that match personalities so I believe in stocking up before the pressure is on. Now though, with the holiday season upon us, it’s crunch time for the rest of the list. Instead of resorting to toys or expensive electronics, here are some ideas for more creative, memorable gifts from grandparents:

Family membership to local learning institutions. Help promote your grandchildren’s education through fun family experiences. We have so many cultural institutions and museums in Staten Island (including a zoo) that offer family memberships at a discounted price. Pick one and let your clan look forward to a year of visits.

Custom Gift Cards. Create a gift card telling the kids that you’ll take them, and perhaps a friend or two, to the next blockbuster movie they want to see. If you could, add a pre-movie pizza stop and a post movie ice cream. Present it in a festive box filled with their favorite movie snacks. This should work well with preteens but perhaps with older children a Broadway play or even a concert would be appreciated. Some of today’s teenagers do appreciate our old-school music.

Diaper Delivery. If you have a grandbaby, a coupon redeemable for disposable diapers and wipes by the case will be greatly appreciated. Print out a certificate with Expect Delivery By ______ on it. Then you can order online through websites like Amazon, Toys R Us, or Target and have it sent directly to their home.

Think Outside the Season. If your grandchildren like camping or hiking, pick up gear or gift certificates to stores that carry such equipment. Sleeping bags, backpacks, or camping gear are fun to use indoors as they wait for camping or hiking season.

Being a grandparent shouldn’t only be about what you can give, it is also about what you can teach. Besides sharing your cooking or crafting skills at home, why not sign up for some craft lessons along with the children? Perhaps a cooking, flower arranging, or a craft class would be fun. A search online or the SIParent calendar of events will show you options to attend with the children. If you have talents such as playing an instrument or artistic abilities, consider setting up a time each week for private lessons.

One of the greatest gifts you can give is to teach children to help others. As your grandchildren get older, their awareness of the world grows. Kids who express a passion for the environment should be exposed to the Greenbelt Conservancy here in Staten Island. The Greenbelt includes New York City’s largest remaining forest preserve, offering peace, quiet, and solitude. It is also home to wetlands, forests, meadows, and rolling hills that offer visitors a glimpse into the natural heritage of Staten Island. The Greenbelt is an extraordinary natural resource visited by over one million people annually with many opportunities to participate in events or volunteer. Check them out online at sigreenbelt.org

During this season of giving, make it your responsibility as the elders to teach to give back, keeping these four simple rules in mind:

• Be a Role Model
• Start Small
• Make It a Tradition
• Make It Meaningful

Life is Grand is the place for today’s generation of active, involved grandparents and seniors to get more smiles, have more fun, and create more memories during time they spend with their families.

By Staten Islander Marianna Randazzo, who is an author, educator, as well as a newly minted grandmother. 

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  1. Cool School Holiday

    February 19 @ 10:00 am - 5:00 pm
    February 19, 2018  |  10:00 am - 5:00 pm
    SI Children's Museum
    Free admission!
  2. Winter Olympic Medal Workshop

    February 19 @ 11:00 am - 4:00 pm
    February 19, 2018  |  11:00 am - 4:00 pm
    SI Children's Museum
    Make a Winter Olympic medal. Pick up a timed ticket at the front desk; limited to 25 people per session.
  3. Krazy Kidz

    February 19 @ 11:30 am
    February 19, 2018  |  11:30 am - 11:30 am
    West New Brighton Library
    Join us for singing, dancing, coloring and stories. Meet other kids and their caregivers!
  4. Living with Deer

    February 19 @ 1:00 pm - 2:30 pm
    February 19, 2018  |  1:00 pm - 2:30 pm
    Bloomingdale Park
    With the Urban Park Rangers we will look for, learn about, and discover the signs of white-tailed deer.  
  5. Crafternoon

    February 19 @ 3:30 pm
    February 19, 2018  |  3:30 pm - 3:30 pm
    West New Brighton Library
    Come in every week for a fun and seasonal craft!
  6. Tot Time Tuesday

    February 20 @ 10:00 am - 11:30 am
    February 20, 2018  |  10:00 am - 11:30 am
    The Interpretive Center
    Learn about a new plant or animal every week by creating crafts, story time, and playing with other tots!
  7. Toddler Time

    February 20 @ 10:30 am
    February 20, 2018  |  10:30 am - 10:30 am
    South Beach Library
  8. Sensory Storytime

    February 20 @ 10:30 am
    February 20, 2018  |  10:30 am - 10:30 am
    West New Brighton Library
    An inclusive, 4-session program that combines the best practices from special education and traditional storytime to create an interactive, engaging program for children of all abilities.
  9. Baby Space!

    February 20 @ 10:30 am - 11:30 am
    February 20, 2018  |  10:30 am - 11:30 am
    St. George Library
    Songs, rhymes, movements, and stories for babies! This program is geared toward confident walkers up to age 23 months. Please register for the first class you will attend.
  10. History…for the Horses

    February 20 @ 10:30 am - 11:30 am
    February 20, 2018  |  10:30 am - 11:30 am
    Greenbelt Nature Center
    Trot on over to learn about horses in American history, including those on Staten Island. Weather permitting, meet a live NYC Parks horse! This event is for anyone ages 6 and older. Contact Number 718-351-3450 Contact Email naturecenter@sigreenbelt.org