Memorable Gifts that Show You Care – Even From a Distance

Editor’s Note: This is Marianna’s last Life is Grand! column. We at Staten Island Parent hope you join us in thanking her for all her wonderful insight, advice, and tips for our Staten Island Grandparents, and wish her all the best in her future endeavors experiencing the grand life! 


Being away from grandparents during the holidays shouldn’t take away from the meaning of sharing and caring about each other. With today’s technology and a few trinkets from the Dollar store or a souvenir shop, a lot of love could be shared on any day of the year.

Here are a few ideas for giving back and forth between grandparents and grandchildren:

• Stay away from toys that will have little meaning to them within a few months. Consider an ornament that has a special meaning. It may be from a trip you attended, something especially inscribed, or a menorah from somewhere special. If possible, date it so that every year as the child grows the collection will have meaning.

• Buy a ticket to a one-day experience with you. When you know you will be visiting the children or they will visit you, have tickets ready to an event such as a play, sports event or musical performance. If the price is out of your range, a gift certificate to a favorite restaurant for just grandparents and grandchildren will give everyone something to look forward to. Time spent together is not soon forgotten.

• Although for some people, books have moved to the side by eBooks, a small collection of classics is something a child may like to have in his or her library. Perhaps the inspiration will lead to an interest in the masterpieces. Most bookstores have beautiful collections especially during the holidays.

• Art supplies are an all-time favorite with kids of all ages. Along with the supplies, add the stipulation that the children send you their artwork or a picture of it. When you run out of room on the refrigerator, use an old fashioned photo album, or a binder with sheet protectors to collect all their artwork. (Tip: put child’s name and year on all art work).

For a gift that keeps on giving, consider monthly care packages with snacks and little gifts like gloves and hats or books, age appropriate, of course! Let the kids know that they will be getting a small package from the “Grandkids of the Month Club” exclusively set up for them!

Another way to keep the fun of sharing going is when you do get together, leave a bunch of small gifts wrapped for each month you will be a part. (Fun gifts could also be practical too, such as crazy socks, fresh school supplies, etc.). Have the parent put them away and take them out at the beginning of each month to present to the grandchild. Have mom take a picture of the kids opening gifts and send it over to the grandfolks!

I guarantee most of the above gifts will put a grand smile on everyone’s face.

By Staten Islander Marianna Randazzo, author, educator, and a two-time grandmother.



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  1. Cool School Holiday

    February 19 @ 10:00 am - 5:00 pm
    February 19, 2018  |  10:00 am - 5:00 pm
    SI Children's Museum
    Free admission!
  2. Winter Olympic Medal Workshop

    February 19 @ 11:00 am - 4:00 pm
    February 19, 2018  |  11:00 am - 4:00 pm
    SI Children's Museum
    Make a Winter Olympic medal. Pick up a timed ticket at the front desk; limited to 25 people per session.
  3. Krazy Kidz

    February 19 @ 11:30 am
    February 19, 2018  |  11:30 am - 11:30 am
    West New Brighton Library
    Join us for singing, dancing, coloring and stories. Meet other kids and their caregivers!
  4. Living with Deer

    February 19 @ 1:00 pm - 2:30 pm
    February 19, 2018  |  1:00 pm - 2:30 pm
    Bloomingdale Park
    With the Urban Park Rangers we will look for, learn about, and discover the signs of white-tailed deer.  
  5. Crafternoon

    February 19 @ 3:30 pm
    February 19, 2018  |  3:30 pm - 3:30 pm
    West New Brighton Library
    Come in every week for a fun and seasonal craft!
  6. Tot Time Tuesday

    February 20 @ 10:00 am - 11:30 am
    February 20, 2018  |  10:00 am - 11:30 am
    The Interpretive Center
    Learn about a new plant or animal every week by creating crafts, story time, and playing with other tots!
  7. Toddler Time

    February 20 @ 10:30 am
    February 20, 2018  |  10:30 am - 10:30 am
    South Beach Library
  8. Sensory Storytime

    February 20 @ 10:30 am
    February 20, 2018  |  10:30 am - 10:30 am
    West New Brighton Library
    An inclusive, 4-session program that combines the best practices from special education and traditional storytime to create an interactive, engaging program for children of all abilities.
  9. Baby Space!

    February 20 @ 10:30 am - 11:30 am
    February 20, 2018  |  10:30 am - 11:30 am
    St. George Library
    Songs, rhymes, movements, and stories for babies! This program is geared toward confident walkers up to age 23 months. Please register for the first class you will attend.
  10. History…for the Horses

    February 20 @ 10:30 am - 11:30 am
    February 20, 2018  |  10:30 am - 11:30 am
    Greenbelt Nature Center
    Trot on over to learn about horses in American history, including those on Staten Island. Weather permitting, meet a live NYC Parks horse! This event is for anyone ages 6 and older. Contact Number 718-351-3450 Contact Email naturecenter@sigreenbelt.org