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2018 Holiday Fairs & Auctions in Staten Island

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

Shop local this holiday season. Now is the time to start!

Many schools, churches, and other organizations host annual holiday fairs and auctions in November and December to raise funds and to celebrate the joys of holiday season. Think of these fairs as a one-stop shopping center for all your Christmas, Hanukkah or holiday shopping needs!

 

CLICK HERE TO SIGN UP FOR HOLIDAY EVENT UPDATES AND MORE!

 

Some fairs may require ticket or admission fees. Dates, times and details are subject to change. Please call ahead to confirm.

Want your fair listed? Email the details to jcintron@siparent-com.go-vip.net and we’ll add it in!

Featured Fairs

St. Christopher School Christmas Fair
Saturday, December 8 • 12-6pm
15 Lisbon Place
718-356-0452
12-6pm
Wide variety of vendors, raffles, pictures with Santa, food, games, and a grand prize raffle. $500 & $250 cash prizes.

Holiday Holistic Expo
Sunday, December 16 • 11am-6pm
Hilton Garden Inn • 1100 South Ave.
718-524-1077
Celebrate with your favorite light-workers! Recharge before the holidays. Gift shopping, awesome workshops, raffles, giveaways and more! Admission is $5.00.


Tuesday, December 4

P.S. 37R Holiday Fair
15 Fairfield Street
718-984-9800
6-9pm
Variety of vendors selling items and holiday novelties, plus beautiful baskets for you to win. Pictures with Santa too.

Wednesday, December 5

P.S. 58 Holiday Fair
77 Marsh Avenue
718-605-1189
6-9pm

P.S. 37R Holiday Fair
15 Fairfield Street
718-984-9800
9am-2pm
Variety of vendors selling items and holiday novelties, plus beautiful baskets for you to win. Pictures with Santa too.

Thursday, December 6

P.S. 37R Holiday Fair
15 Fairfield Street
718-984-9800
9am-2pm
Variety of vendors selling items and holiday novelties, plus beautiful baskets for you to win. Pictures with Santa too.

Friday, December 7

P.S. 36 Holiday Fair
255 Ionia Avenue
718-984-1422
6-8pm
There will be a variety of vendors selling beautiful merchandise.

Saturday, December 8

St. Teresa School Christmas Fair
1632 Victory Blvd. (Conran Hall)
718-448-9650
12pm-7pm
Christmas Cafe, pictures with Santa, vendors and holiday shopping, games and raffles.

Castleton Hill Moravian Church
1657 Victory Blvd.
718-442-5215
10am-4pm
Toys, decorations, gifts, stocking stuffers, 1/2 price items, visit from Santa, decorate your own gingerbread house.

St. Christopher School Christmas Fair
50 Maguire Area
718-356-0452
12-6pm
Wide variety of vendors, raffles, pictures with Santa, food, games, and a grand prize raffle. $500 & $250 cash prizes.

Eltingville Lutheran’s Mistletoe Halls
300 Genesee Avenue
718-356-7811
Time TBA
Vendors, raffles and food.

Island Shores Holiday Fair
1111 Father Capodanno Blvd.
718-667-0666
12-4pm
Raffle baskets, 50/50, bake sale, vendors, crafts, a visit from Santa. All fair proceeds will benefit local charities.

South Shore Toddler Academy Holiday Fair
11 Sampson Ave.
718-356-3563
10am-2pm
Vendors, 50/50 raffle, family photos, baskets, refreshments, Santa visit.

P.S. 42 Winter Wonderland
380 Genessee Ave.
718-984-3800
11am-5pm
indoor/outdoor family event! Over 20 vendors, bounce houses, slides, carnival rides, Santa, gingerbread cookie decorating, performances by Next Step Dance & Ms. Carolina’s Dance Elite, foot trucks, hand decorated fresh wreaths and mini trees, popcorn, cotton candy and more!

Sunday, December 9

St. Teresa School Christmas Fair
1632 Victory Blvd. (Conran Hall)
718-448-9650
10am-3pm
Christmas Cafe, pictures with Santa, vendors and holiday shopping, games and raffles.

Holiday Shopping at the Hilton
Hilton Garden Inn • 1100 South Avenue
vinevendornetwork.org
10am-4:30pm
Come join over 50 local small businesses to shop and play raffles in a gorgeous, elegant, family-friendly everyone-is-welcome atmosphere. Vendors offering toys, jewelry, art, bags, ornaments, clothing, sewing, crafts, skincare, photography, cosmetics, crochet, candles, cutlery, knitting, healthy-living, essential oils, soap, and so much more, you are sure to find the perfect gift for the holiday season. Admission is free.

Opening Doors Wellness & Recovery Winter Wonderland

1652 Richmond Ave.
Calla Karate • 718-720-2509
1-4pm
Storytime with Santa, Cookie decorating, arts and crafts, holiday games, face painting and tattoos, raffles baskets and 50/50.

Saturday, December 15

P.S. 56 Holiday Fair
250 Kramer Avenue
718-605-1189
10am-5pm
Pictures with Santa, raffle baskets, food and more.

Sunday, December 16

Holiday Holistic Expo
Hilton Garden Inn • 1100 South Ave.
718-524-1077
Celebrate with your favorite light-workers! Recharge before the holidays. Gift shopping, awesome workshops, raffles, giveaways and more! Admission is $5.00.

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Madonna Columbiettes Vendor Night
Epifano Parish Center
85 Jerome Ave.
6-10:30pm
Plus raffle baskets and 50/50, plus holiday shopping.

Eger Scandinavian Holiday Fair
140 Meisner Avenue
718-989-3125
9am-4pm
Homemade food and handmade gifts, raffles, music, santa & more.

The Holiday Fair at Saint Alban’s Church
76 Saint Alban’s place (behind Perkins in Upper Parish Hall)
718-984-7756
10am-8pm
Raffles, holiday items and more.

Order Sons of Italy in America Holiday Shopping Fair
Hemsley Hall • 4 Arthur Kill Road
Capodanno212@gmail.com
Free door prize to ticket holders! Vendors, raffles and more. Proceeds from this event are donated to local Staten Island charities and schools.

The Church of Saint Andrew
4 Arthur Kill Rd.
718-351-0900
10am-7pm
Raffles, crafts, homemade decorations, toys, baked goods, theme baskets.

St. John’s Episcopal Church Lucky Draw Holiday Auction Fundraiser
1331 Bay Street (Eccleston Hall, Canterbury House)
718-447-1605
6:30pm
Thanksgiving and Christmas gifts, assorted gift baskets, 50/50, toys, sweeps and more.

Uncle Louie G’s Holiday Angels
30 Gifford’s Lane
917-887-6846
6-9pm

Ladies clothes, costume jewelry, bags and accessories.

The Church of Saint Andrew
4 Arthur Kill Rd.
718-351-0900
11am-6:30pm
Raffles, crafts, homemade decorations, toys, baked goods, theme baskets.

Uncle Louie G’s Holiday Angels
30 Gifford’s Lane
917-887-6846
12-4pm
Ladies clothes, costume jewelry, bags and accessories.

Holy Child Preschool Christmas Fair
4747 Amboy Road
718-356-5159
9:30am-5pm
Over 50 vendors, raffle baskets, photos with Santa, children’s crafts & more.

Zion Lutheran Church Holiday Fair
505 Watchogue Rd.
718-981-3151
10am-3pm

Holy Family Christmas Fair
366 Watchogue Road
718-761-6663
9am-3pm
Holiday shopping, raffles, breakfast and lunch.

St. Joseph & St. Mary Immaculate’s Holiday Vendor Fair
St. Joseph’s School Hall • 463 Tompkins Ave
718-816-0047
9am-4pm
Christmas items, jewelry, 50/50, raffles, clothing.

St. Charles Christmas Fair
200 Penn Avenue
718-987-0200
7-9pm
Raffles, 50/50, homemade crafts, baked goods, pics with Santa.

Blessed Sacrament’s Christmas Fair
830 Delafield Avenue
718-442-3090
9am-3pm

St. Adalbert Holiday Fair
355 Morningstar Rd.
718-442-2020
8am-8pm
Christmas novelties and items, food and raffles.

St. Ann’s Holiday Basket Auction
125 Cromwell Avenue
718-351-4343
6pm

Uncle Louie G’s Holiday Angels
30 Gifford’s Lane
917-887-6846
6-9pm
Ladies clothes, costume jewelry, bags and accessories.

Great Kills Moravian Church Christmas Fair
62 Hillside Terrace
718-317-7788
10am-4pm
Handmade ornaments and gifts for fall and Christmas, Bakery Café and mitten tree. Collecting new hats, mittens and gloves for those in need.

Staten Island Council for Animal Welfare
Immanuel Union Church • 693 Jewett Ave
718-948-5623
10am-4pm
Gifts, crafts, artwork, collectables, jewelry, handmade pet beds, vintage jewelry, 100+ raffle baskets, homemade dishes & baked goods. Proceeds used for rescue, care and placement of homeless and abandoned animals

Staten Island Technical H.S. Holiday Fair
485 Clawson St.
718-667-3222
10am-4pm
Door prizes, gift basket raffles, food, jewelry, holiday items, handmade gifts, Kid’s Zone with face painting crafts and more. Snacks and photos with Santa. Family fun event!

Trinity Lutheran Church Stapleton Fair
309 St Paul’s Avenue
718-447-0526
9am-2pm
Arts, crafts, caricatures, face painting, live music, coffee, food and other treasures.

Uncle Louie G’s Holiday Angels
30 Gifford’s Lane
917-887-6846
12-4pm
Ladies clothes, costume jewelry, bags and accessories.

St. Peter – St. Paul & Assumption
129 Clinton Avenue
718-447-1796
10am-4pm
Vendors and more.

Our Lady Queen of Peace Christmas Fair
22 Steele Ave
718-351-0370
10am-6pm
Photos with Santa, raffles, 50/50, baskets, home decor, jewelry, holiday items, personalized gifts, carnival games, kids crafts, and food.

Fr. Drumgoole Columbiettes Holiday Fair
397 Clarke Ave
718-698-0673
9:30am-4pm
Tables will feature wreathes, cosmetics, dolls, jewelry and more. Refreshments and fresh baked goods available.

Holy Rosary Holiday Fair
100 Jerome Avenue
718-447-1195
9am-4pm
Many vendors, toys, jewelry, Pink Zebra, holiday decor and more.

JCC Holiday Fair
1466 Manor Road
718-475-5200
10am-5pm
Many merchants, who will be selling a wide variety of items, including jewelry, clothing, accessories, toys, purses, and much, much more. All welcome.

Saint Peter & St. Paul Christmas Fair
129 Clinton Avenue
718-447-6362
10am-4pm
Raffles, vendors, & more.

St. Ann’s Holiday Fair
125 Cromwell Avenue
718-351-4343
9am-4pm

Alice Austen House Holiday Fair
2 Hylan Boulevard
718-816-4506
11am-5pm
Handmade holiday gifts, local artists and craftsmen

All Saints Episcopal Church Holiday Fair
2329 Victory Blvd.
718-698-1338
10am-5pm
Holiday crafts, vendors, basket raffles, food court. Ample parking and handicap access. Outdoor activities, wether permitting.

PLUTO Rescue’s Holiday Fair
Castleton Hill Moravian Church • 1657 Victory Blvd
718-227-0553
10am-4pm
Craft Vendors as well as food, raffles, baskets and animals for adoption. All proceeds go to animalrescue and adoption.

Uncle Louie G’s Holiday Angels
30 Gifford’s Lane
917-887-6846
12-4pm
Ladies clothes, costume jewelry, bags and accessories.

Clove Lakes Health Care & Rehab Center Holiday Fair
25 Fanning Street
718-289-7114
10am-4pm
Vendors, refreshments, photos with Santa.

National Lighthouse Museum Store Sunday
200 The Promenade at Lighthouse Point (adjacent to the Staten Island Ferry)
718-390-0040
11am-4pm
lighthouse and maritime jewelry, t-shirts,
Sweatshirts, hoodies, tote bags, lighthouse ornaments, books, postcards, note cards and many other unique items for your holiday gift giving needs. Free museum admission. Complimentary gift wrapping and 10% off your purchase, steaming hot chocolate or cider.

Marsh Avenue Expeditionary Learning School Holiday Basket Bash
100 Essex Drive
718-370-6850
5-8:30pm

P.S. 5
348 Deisius St.
718-668-3270
6-9pm
Vendors and more

P.S. 26 Holiday Fair
4108 Victory Blvd.
718-698-1530
3-7pm

Saint Joseph – St. Thomas Holiday Fair
50 Maguire Ave.
718-356-0452
3-9pm

St. Rita School Christmas Fair
30 Wellbrook Ave. (entrance on Bradley Ave.)
718-761-2504
12-6pm
Free admission, all welcome. Vendors, arts and crafts, food, gifts, holiday decor, pics with Santa, raffles and so much more!

Port Richmond High School Holiday Basket Auction
85 St. Joseph’s Avenue
718-420-2100
12-4pm
Games, raffles, entertainment, crafts/fun for kids, food/concession, prizes.

Jolly Holly Fair at Unitarian Church of Staten Island
312 Fillmore St.
718-447-2204
10am-4pm
Meet Santa & Mrs Claus. Listen to holiday music, enjoy delicious food, browse booths for special treats!

Christ Lutheran Church Annual Holiday Fair
121 Cleveland Ave
718-984 -6595
9am-3pm
Raffles, gift baskets, vermont cheddar, 50/50, bake sale, free face painting, holiday shopping and music, Thanksgiving pies, Mrs. Claus kitchen open, vendors. Free parking and open to the public.

Sunday, December 2

St. Rita School Christmas Fair
30 Wellbrook Ave. (entrance on Bradley Ave.)
718-761-2504
9am-3pm
Free admission, all welcome. Vendors, arts and crafts, food, gifts, holiday decor, pics with Santa, raffles and so much more!

Saint Joseph – St. Thomas Holiday Fair
50 Maguire Ave.
718-356-0452
9am-6pm

Msgr. Farrell High School Christmas Fair
2900 Amboy Rd.
718-987-2900
10am-5pm
Over 8- vendors, plus raffle baskets and door prizes, bakes goods and festive foods, trash to treasure. Visit with Santa. Free parking.

Conference House Colonial Christmas
7455 Hylan Blvd.
718-984-6046
11am-4pm
Music, Treats, Father Christmas, Raffles & Gift Vendors

Filed Under: Family Fun

Staten Island Parent’s 2018 WINNER WONDERLAND

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

It’s our BIGGEST HOLIDAY GIVEAWAY EVER! We are giving away over $2,200 in prizes this holiday season! Enter by December 15, 2018.

CLICK HERE TO SIGN UP FOR HOLIDAY UPDATES AND MORE!

Kid Trax Rideamals Scout Ride-On Pony

Prize Value: $399.99
walmart.com
Ages 3-7

This adorable pony comes to life with fully motorized eyes, ears, head and wheels. Scout has over 100 sounds and movements, including a special pony dance.
pony ride


Cuisinart Professional Portable Gas Grill

Prize Value: $199.99
cuisinart.com
Perfect for tailgating, impromptu summer entertaining, and more, this gas grill offers 20,000 BTUs of cooking power in a convenient, portable design.
gas grill


Jenga GIANT JS7 Hardwood Game

Prize Value: $169.95
JengaGiant.com
This is the AUTHENTIC Jenga (not a copycat!). Each block is over 14 times the volume of a Classic Jenga block. You can build this version up to 5ft high!
jenga


The Laurie Berkner Band Holiday Show – Family 4-Pack of Tickets

Prize Value: $156.00
LaurieBerkner.com
ticketmaster.com
See best-selling children’s recording artist and preschool television favorite Laurie Berkner at the Bergen Performing Arts Center in Englewood, NJ on Sunday, December 9 at 2:00 p.m.
laurie berkner band


Epson Expression Premium XP-640 Small-in-One Printer

Prize Value $149.99
epson.com
Filled with creative features, the Expression Premium XP-640 wireless Small-in-One printer delivers superior photo quality and sharp text.
epson expression


American Girl Luciana Vega Doll & Book

Prize value: $115.00
AmericanGirl.comAges 8+
American Girl’s 2018 Girl of the Year —a confident 11-year old girl and aspiring astronaut pursuing her dream of being the first person on Mars—inspires girls to push beyond boundaries and reach for the stars.
Luciana Vega Doll


Boujie Kidz Clothing Gift Card

Prize Value: $100.00
BoujieKidz.com
Boujie Kidz was started by fashion-conscious parents who wanted to provide the coolest, hippest designer kids clothes for their children, offering affordable and trendy clothes that will make your kids look like they are about to walk the runway.
Boujie Kidz Clothing


PLAYMOBIL Spirit Riding Free Lucky’s Happy Home

Prize Value: $99.99
playmobil.us
Ages 4+

Visit Lucky’s Happy Home on the frontier where she lives with with her Dad Jim, Aunt Cora, and her horse, Spirit. Set comes with equipped kitchen and secret hideout. Dimensions: 39 x 34 x 48 cm (LxWxH).
luckys happy home


Sonic Bundle

Prize Value: $81.96
SonictheHedgehog.com
Sonic the Hedgehog continues to break barriers over the course of 25+ years as one of gaming’s most iconic characters of all time! Bundle includes: Sonic Mania Plus for Nintendo Switch, Sonic Classic 1991 Ultimate Figure, Sonic the Hedgehog IDW Comic Book &amp Sonic Tee.
sonic bundle


Botley the Coding Robot Activity Set

Prize Value: $79.99
LearningResources.com
Ages 5+

While it navigates obstacle courses, follows looping commands and detects objects, children get to learn early STEM skills and the basics of coding while playing and having fun.
Coding Robot Activity Set


Schleich Adventure Tree House

Prize Value: $79.99
schleich-s.com
Ages 4+

Imagination-powered adventures abound with this colorful, interactive playset. Kids can take the included figures for a ride down the slide, up the ladder, or on the tire swing.
Schleich Adventure Tree House


Mensch on a Bench Bundle with Mensch, Ask Papa & Mitzvah Moose

Prize Value: $79.97
TheMenschonaBench.com
The Mensch on a Bench is a doll that brings more Funukkah to Hanukkah! Mitzvah Moose includes a storybook whereby Moshe the Mensch helps the moose complete eight “mitzvot” (good deeds) to light up his antlers.
mensch on a bench


Antsy Pants Pirate Ship Build & Play Set

Prize Value: $69.99
target.com
This Build & Play Kit contains everything you need to build your own pirate ship including poles, connectors, fabric cover, and build booklet.
pirate ship build


PLAYMOBIL Hidden Temple with T-Rex

Prize Value: $59.99
playmobil.us
Ages 4+

Join Nick, Will, & Emma as they embark on a new adventure on Dino Island. Once you discover the temple, use the ancient structure as your research base before heading out to explore the island with the help of the secret map.
hidden temple with t-rex


Nancy B’s Science Club MoonScope & Skygazer

Prize Value $54.99
EducationalInsights.com
Ages 8-12

Grab your MoonScope and take a tour of the nighttime sky complete with visits to the stars, Saturn, Jupiter, and even the mountain ranges and craters on the moon!
science club moonscope


Antsy Pants Fire Truck Vehicle Kit

Prize Value $49.99
target.com
This Build & Play Kit contains everything you need to build your own Fire Truck. Made with durable poles and Snap and Click connectors to ensure your structure stays strong.
fire truck vehicle kit


Antsy Pants School Bus Vehicle Kit

Prize Value: $49.99
target.com
This Build & Play Kit contains everything you need to build your own School Bus. Made with durable poles and Snap and Click connectors to ensure your structure stays strong.
school bus vehicle kid


Aura Stealth Drone by KD Interactive

Prize Value: $49.99
walmart.com
Ages 6+

Kids can fly Aura Stealth up and down, forward and backward, left and right, and even perform cool tricks like a sideways flip—all with just the wave of a hand. 5-7 minutes flight time.
Aura Stealth Drone


Infinifun My First Yoga Mat by KD Kids

Prize Value $49.99
amazon.com
Ages 2+

Play together as your little yogi builds concentration and body awareness, develops coordination, balance and fine motor skills, and masters basic yoga poses with the help of your yoga instructor, BitsyBot.
kids yoga mat


Antsy Pants Dinosaur Hoppity Hop

Prize Value $34.00
target.com
Ages 4+

Hop to it! This T-rex hoppity hop is made of bouncy soft material. Just grab the ears tight before sitting and jumping and away you go! Easy to inflate and deflate for on the go and storage.
t-rex hoppity hop


Antsy Pants Unicorn Hoppity Hop

Prize Value $34.00
target.com
Ages 4+

Hop to it! This unicorn hoppity hop is made of bouncy soft material. Just grab the ears tight before sitting and jumping and away you go! Easy to inflate and deflate for on the go and storage.
Unicorn Hoppity Hop


Converse Chuck Taylor Dinoverse & Unicorn

Prize Value: $35/40 per pair (Two winners will be chosen)
Kohls.com; Converse.com
sizes infant 2-10 and youth 11-3
The “Dinoverse” is collection is inspired by kids’ love for some of the largest prehistoric animals to ever walk the earth and features a Dinoverse patch, custom Dinoverse shoebox, colorful graphic sockliner, and a dinosaur footprint on the outsole.
The “Unicorn” is covered with printed graphics, rainbow colorways, sparkled accents and won’t disappoint kids who love to explore the legendary creature’s mysticism.
converse





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girls having birthday party
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Free Printable “Take One Treat” Halloween Sign

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

Heading out with the kids for Halloween but still want to leave some goodies for the little goblins in the neighborhood? This sign from Made by a Princess should do the trick handing out treats — while you and your little ones are out doing your own trick-or-treating!

halloween poster

Filed Under: Family Fun

Choosing the Right Cruise for Your Family

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

nyc cruise

Thinking of a mid-sea getaway soon? Here are some things to consider when planning a cruise for your next family vacation.

Tips for finding the best cruise:

  • What does your family need?
  • What size ship suits your party?
  • How many days do you want the cruise to last?
  • What lodgings suit your family’s needs?
  • Do you want flexible or set dining times?
  • What type of entertainment interests you?
  • What atmosphere do you want?
  • What is your perfect itinerary?
  • Read the fine print.

CLICK HERE READ MORE FROM NY NYMETROPARENT


The most family-friendly cruise lines with the best attractions for kids departing from the New York area:

  • Disney Cruise Line
  • Carnival Cruise Line
  • Norwegian Cruise Line
  • Royal Caribbean International

CLICK HERE READ MORE FROM NY NYMETROPARENT

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What the Fortnite? Thoughts on Kids and Video Game Addictions

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

fortnite addiction

The Slippery Slope of Digital Addiction & How Parents Are Avoiding It

When my ten-year-old son showed me his holiday wish list recently, I knew it would be laden with electronics of all sorts. And I was right, more or less, because it consisted solely of electronics. What I didn’t expect was just how short the list would be. It contained just two items: V-bucks (Fortnight cash) and an X-Box One, yet another device on which he could play his beloved Fortnite.

The Washington Post describes Fortnite as a cross between Minecraft and a shooter game, complete with 100-person, battle royal fights to the death, zombie survival modes and more. It’s definitely been my least favorite video game so far, due to its violent features and highly addictive nature.

But despite the title of this article, I’m not pointing all fingers at Fortnite. Although the latest gaming sensation has captured the 24/7 focus of kids, teens, and even adults alike, it will surely be phased out soon and replaced by the Next Big Thing. Before Fortnite, it was Roblox. Before Roblox, it was Minecraft. Before Minecraft, Super Mario. At least back in the Super Mario days, my son would often pause the game to fiddle with his toy dinosaurs or build brightly colored LEGO creations. But each phase is seemingly more intense than the last, with action figures and fantasy play replaced by more and more gaming time. It’s becoming a problem.

I’m not innocent, of course. I can limit device use, encourage outdoor play, or use gaming time as a reward rather than a regular activity. But I think a lot of parents are guilty of over-utilizing these convenient little electronic babysitters. As a work-at-home-mom who relishes the rare, quiet moments where I can complete projects in peace, my kids probably spend more time staring at screens than they should.

The World Health Organization recently classified digital addiction as a diagnosable disease called “gaming disorder.” Studies have shown overuse of screen time can lead to obesity, depression, sleep problems, anxiety, loss of social skills and more. In very young children it can lead to delayed language development.

According to Dr. Peng Pang, Director of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry at Staten Island University Hospital, there is overwhelming evidence of similarities between internet & video game addictions (IVGA) and substance use disorder. He cited the following symptoms of gaming disorder:

  • preoccupation with video games, which becomes the dominant activity in daily life
  • withdrawal symptoms when gaming is taken away like irritability, anxiety, or sadness
  • loss of interest in past hobbies and entertainment
  • continued excessive use of games despite knowledge of a problem
  • lying about gaming
  • use of games to relieve a negative mood

“To prevent development of IVGA, children and adolescents typically need to resume healthy real-time living strategies to replace the dopamine that addiction creates and to regain typical joys and satisfactions balanced living provides, e.g. focusing on academic or work performance, sleep quantity and quality, ‘real-life’ ‘in-person’ activities and relationships,” Dr. Pang said.

In other words, both children and adults can become as dependent on video games as people with drug or alcohol addictions. Therefore, is critical to help kids foster those real-life experiences to replace the “high” of addiction.

It’s scary to think of my ten year-old being addicted to anything, so limiting screen time altogether is the best place to start in combatting my son’s chronic gaming. I turned to parents in and around Staten Island for ideas on reducing screen time and received some excellent tips and feedback.

Set Rules.

In my own house we try to restrict screen time on school nights, limiting it to weekends only, a practice I found to be fairly common amongst parents with school-aged children. Some parents are rigid with their rules while others are lax.

Mary Checo-Williams is strict with her weekend-only rule: “No video games Monday through Friday and only on the weekend, even during summer vacation.”

Polina Vix allows for very little flexibility in her rules: “No screen time Monday to Thursday. No iPads, no TV, no X-Box, etc. School nights are strictly for homework, reading, writing, drawing. Friday through Sunday is a 30-minute limit for iPads per day, and TV/X-Box two to three hours depending on weather and activities for the day.”

Deception can be okay.

There’s no shame in their game for parents who use a little trickery to keep their kids away from screens. Some hide remotes while others “forget” to charge controllers or insist the internet is “broken.”

“Sorry, the iPad died!” Krystle Rocco tells her three-year-old daughter. “She will tell me to charge it, and I do, but then I distract her anyway.”

Use timers and controls.

Deception probably wouldn’t work on older kids, which is why they invented timers and parental controls. WiFi can be turned off easily with the press of a button. TVs can be set to switch off at a certain time. “The Nintendo switch app has controls where I set it to turn off after two hours.” Nicole Saldana says. “They cannot turn it back on if they tried.”

Just say no.

Some parents avoid rules and restrictions with a simple “no.” It’s a strict approach but if you start early, you can set a precedent like Angelina Millaj has with her twin toddlers. “My kids are only two and don’t really know how to work the TV and they don’t have a tablet, plus they aren’t allowed to play with our phones,” she says. “I give them TV time but I don’t generally do it unless they ask and even then its one episode or two short ones. They can have a movie with the family. No set rules—it’s just something we don’t like doing too much of. They’re used to hearing no.”

Schedule afterschool activities.

It’s a simple philosophy. If your kids are too busy with productive activities, there will be no time for screens. Ivy Goffredo says she’s always been extremely strict with her kids’ digital use, but admits their daily extracurriculars make it a little easier. “What helps is the amount of after school activities they have. They are in extended day at school because we both work. They also have activities almost daily – dance, soccer, etc. Weekends are busy with those activities too.”

Monitor for negative reactions.

It’s important to step in if your child is becoming belligerent or having adverse reactions to gameplay. This type of behavior can be unhealthy and needs to be addressed immediately. Alison Arpaio won’t stand for it with her 11-year-old son. “If he starts getting too serious while playing or angry, I make him stop because it’s just a game and I don’t tolerate attitudes over a game.”

Redirect, redirect, redirect.

Having distractions available will surely keep your kids from craving screen time. If they are bored, they will turn to screens. Crystal Jorge says she plays a lot of music in her house and keeps many books on hand for her son. “I try to always have an arts-and-crafts box around with cool stickers and stuff so I can tell him to go be creative instead.”

No screens outside the house.

For some parents, it’s a matter of respect. For others, it’s about discipline. Either way, many parents won’t allow digital devices outside the house. Jennifer Spadafora enforces this rule when necessary. “Tablets do not come into restaurants or family gatherings but may leave the house if I have a doctor’s appointment for myself where I need them occupied.”

Set an example.

This might be the hardest rule for parents to follow. Many of us are just as guilty of an overabundance of screen time as our children. Setting an example is important. Putting phones away during meals and letting your kids see you reading instead of zoned out on the couch is a great place to start.

“We have one TV in the whole house and it is only on twice a day: while I’m making breakfast and while I’m making dinner,” Mrs. Spadafora says.

Use technology as reward.

A little positive reinforcement goes a long way – a lot longer than the negative kind, at least. Instead of taking their digital devices away when they are misbehaving, try using screen time as a reward for good behavior only.

Many parents will only allow screen time after homework is completed and chores are done. Good grades, good behavior, and a positive attitude are all a must.

Jaimee Fontaine found this to be a helpful solution to her daughter’s digital habits. “My seven-year-old was getting obsessed with her iPad, so now she has to earn her time by reading or putting away silverware, folding socks, etc. Instead of an allowance she gets time on her iPad.”

Educational games only.

Some parents are more opposed to the types of games being played than the gaming itself. Many won’t allow their child to play a violent game like Fortnite at all. Instead they limit device use to educational games only.

Kristin Dalton says of her daughter: “We’ve had very, very few instances when we’ve had to take her iPad away. She’s only allowed to play educational games like ABC Mouse, though we do have a Spotify account for her so she can use it to listen to music.”

Use your judgement.

Rules and restrictions are not for everyone. If you trust your child not to overdo it, then give him the opportunity to be responsible on his own. One mom I spoke to admitted she doesn’t limit screen use at all.

“He’s a really good kid,” Andrea Tancredi says of her 11-year-old son. “He is respectful, polite, kind and thoughtful. He also asks me every time If he can download something or go online to look at something. He does extremely well in school. So for all these reasons I have no limits on device time. He unwinds by playing video games mostly or watching something on his phone. I feel because he really doesn’t give me any trouble I allow him to unwind how he likes. No limits. I know most parents would jump on me saying that’s ridiculous, but it’s just a non-issue for us.”

Actually, Andrea isn’t alone. I heard from several other parents with a similar outlook.

Jennifer Amato-DiStefano says: “As long as homework is done their free time is theirs to do whatever they want. Unfortunately, in this day and age kids can’t go ‘out to play’ like we used to so spending time on video games is a way for them to socialize with their school friends outside of school.”

Mike Dubs agrees. “If schoolwork is done and they are doing good in school, and getting up for school in time, I’m good with giving them time to do what they want.”

There’s no arguing that technology will always be a big part of our children’s lives. At least we have the power to decide to what extent.

By Jeannine Cintron, a Staten Island mom of two who’s dreaming of a screen-free Christmas.

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2018 Christmas Tree & Menorah Lightings in Staten Island

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

Is there any view more breathtaking than the twinkle of glowing holiday lights? Kick off your yuletide celebrations this season with a Christmas Tree or Menorah Lighting Ceremony here on Staten Island. Bring your whole family and bask in the bright lights together!

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Always call ahead to confirm dates, times, locations, and details.

Annadale Tree Lighting
Sunday, November 25 • 5-7pm
Annadale Road next to Richmond County Savings Bank • Text SSBID to 313131
Featuring a DJ, music, train ride for kids, bouncy houses, hot chocolate, live performance by Miss Caroline’s Dance Elite, photos with Santa.

Victory Blvd Merchants Association Holiday Event & Tree Lighting
Tuesday, November 27, 5pm-7pm
Victory Blvd & Westcott Blvd • 718-273-8802
Santa, caroling, entertainment. Bring unwrapped toys to donate to Toys for Tots.

Conference House Annual Grand Illumination
Friday, November 30 • 7pm
The Conference House • 7455 Hylan Blvd. • 718-984-6046
Welcome the holidays at this free outdoor community event. Enjoy live music and warm cider and cookies as the Conference House is illuminated from within, please dress warmly!

Pleasant Plains Christmas Tree & Menorah Lighting Ceremony
Sunday, December 2 • 4:30pm
Pleasant Plains Plaza • Intersection of Amboy Rd. & Bloomingdales Rd. • janine.materna@gmail.com
Please bring an unwrapped toy for a less-fortunate chid in the local community. This event is free and open to the public.

Richmond Road Christmas Tree Lighting and Holiday Festival
Sunday, December 2 • 3-5pm
Santander Bank Parking Lot • 1630 Richmond Rd. • 718-477-1400 ext 828
Free family photos with Santa, trackless train, costume characters, holiday food and rides.

Christmas in Richmond Town
Sunday, December 2 • 11am-7pm;
Historic Richmond Town • 441 Clarke Avenue • 718-351-1611
Tree Lighting and other events through the historic village.

19th Annual Memorial Service & Tree Lighting Ceremony
Monday, December 3 (Last Names A-L) • 8pm
Tuesday, December 4 (Last Names M-Z)• 8pm
Old Bermuda Inn • 301 Veterans Rd W. • 718-948-7600
Hosted by Scalia Funeral Home, the service is designed to honor the memory of those who have gone. The trees are adorned with ornaments selected by the family members to hold a special memory. Please go to surveymonkey.com/r/ScaliaTreeLighting to RSVP and for more info.

5th Annual New Dorp Lane Christmas Tree Lighting & Holiday Festival
Wednesday, December 5 • 5:30-7:30pm
On New Dorp Lane • between New Dorp Plaza & 10th Street • 718-477-1400 ext 827
There will be Christmas caroling, a family photo booth with Santa, a trackless train, animals, costume characters, free gift wrapping and much more! Free event.

Borough Hall Menorah Lighting
Wednesday, December 5 • 6:30pm
10 Richmond Terrace • 718-816-2000

Borough Hall Tree Lighting
Monday, December 10 • 6:30pm
10 Richmond Terrace • 718-816-2000

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