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16 Ways to Save Your Kids’ Artwork

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

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Children are such wonderful little artists, aren’t they? Their creations are bright, colorful, and always one-of-a-kind, and the way they smile when proudly displaying their latest work of art is truly one of parenthood’s greatest joys.

However, as beautiful as their creations are, the daily artwork starts to pile up after a while and parents often find themselves making the dreaded decision of what to keep and what to toss.

Here are some creative ideas for your kids’ artwork that will make their best projects even more special – while saving you a ton of space at the same time.

  1. Coffee table book.  Scan or take pictures of your favorite artwork and order a keepsake book. You can add pictures of your kids to make it even more personal. Most picture sharing websites, like Shutterfly and Snapfish, will do this for a reasonable price. Here’s a list of 2017’s top 10 photo storage websites.
  2. Digital frame. Simply upload the scanned artwork to a digital picture frame and display an ongoing slideshow anywhere in your home or office.
  3. Jewelry.  Turn your kids’ art into art for your body. Create a necklace, charm bracelet, or even earrings that you or your child can show off for years to come. KidzCanDesign and Formia Design are popular websites that will do this.
  4. String a clothesline. Run a strand or two of clothesline across a wall and secure projects of all shapes and sizes with clothespins. This is a great way to decorate kids’ bedrooms or playrooms.
  5. Clipboard gallery. Neatly affix a series of clipboards to the wall in a square or rectangular shape, spacing them apart equally. Then clip the kids’ most recent artwork to each one, easily switching projects out for new favorites every few months. Click here to see a finished one.
  6. Shadowbox. Not all artwork is flat or can be scanned on a home printer. Purchase a shadow box picture frame for three-dimensional projects to display on a wall or shelf.
  7. Placemats. Take the artwork to Staples and have it laminated, or purchase self-laminating adhesive sheets and laminate it yourself. Then use the laminated art as fun placemats for mealtime.
  8. Artwork mail. Turn artwork into special greeting cards by asking your child to write a message on the back to a grandparent or other family member. Then send it in the mail for a nice surprise!
  9. Homemade puzzles. Adhere  the artwork to a piece of cardboard and cut it into puzzle pieces for a fun, homemade puzzle kids will be proud to complete. Printer’s Studio will create a puzzle for you if using a picture of the artwork.
  10. Start an Instagram page. Create a separate Instagram account for your kids artwork. Set the page to private and request only close family and friends.
  11. Stuffed animals or plushes. Forget that old teddy bear – now you can turn your kids’ creations into a friendly stuffed animal to snuggle with every night. Go to budsies.com or  ChildsOwn.com to make your plush.
  12. Create a photo album. You probably have a bunch of photo albums already, so why not create one just for artwork? Scan pictures of the art and print or order the photos, then slide each photo into an album. Record the child’s name and age under each photo and store with your other photo albums as a precious keepsake.
  13. Bulletin board. This is arguably the easiest way to display artwork. Pin art projects to the bulletin board, then switch out the old stuff for new as the year goes by.
  14. Floating frames. A floating frame will allow you to display images between clear sheets of glass or acrylic. Hang the frames on the wall and create an elegant mini gallery of artwork that can be changed often and easily.
  15. Explore picture sharing websites for new ideas. Many picture sharing websites offer a variety of unconventional methods for displaying pictures. You can turn your kids’ artwork into fridge magnets, coffee mugs, key chains, mouse pads, blankets, calendars, canvas photos, clothing, pillows, cell phone cases and more.
  16. Smartphone Apps. There’s an app for everything, and kids’ artwork is no exception. There are several apps available that will store your children’s previous projects for free. Try Keepy, Canvsly, Artkive, or Art My Kid Made.
  17.  Keepsake boxes. Keep it as organized and neat as possible. Simply file it all away using colored and labeled plastic boxes. See how easy and great it looks at Bowl Full of Lemons.

Filed Under: Family Fun

This Is How to Make Dining Out with Kids Easier

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

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Parents know taking kids out to eat requires patience. The sights and sounds of a restaurant can be overwhelming and distracting to children used to eating at home.

Toddlers have not learned to control their impulses yet, and even school-aged children may experience intermittent breakdowns when they are uncomfortable or not feeling well. But parents who want to take their tots out on the town can employ some easy steps to make eating out a fun excursion for everyone.

Practice. Daniel Post Senning, the great-grandson of etiquette expert Emily Post and co-author of Emily Post’s Etiquette, 18th edition, says parents can practice dining out by replicating the experience (as much as possible) at home. Ask the children to use inside voices and exhibit proper behavior at the dinner table. Remove children from the table if they misbehave and try again another time.

Parents also can acclimate their youngsters to dining out by gradually working their way up to more formal restaurants. Start by dining out at a place where table behavior or noise may be more tolerable, such as a casual restaurant and then a nicer restaurant when kids can handle it.

Provide distractions. Many young children cannot sit still for long and may need a series of distractions to keep them entertained throughout meals. Pack a bag of tricks that includes toys, games, books, and even a digital device tuned to kids’ favorite programs.

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Pick restaurants that do not have a long wait to get a seat so that kids’ patience has not worn thin before you even make it to the table. A sightseeing walk around the restaurant also may be able to provide a welcome distraction until the food is ready.

Pack snacks. Although the goal may be to eat out, kids may not be as patient as adults when waiting for their meals to be delivered. Ask servers to bring out the kids’ meals when appetizers are served or think ahead and have some light snacks, such as crackers or dry cereal, available to tame kids’ hunger pangs.

Choose restaurants wisely. Make concessions as to where and when you eat. Coordinate around nap times so children will be happy and well rested.

Select restaurants that accommodate children. Ask to be seated out of the way just in case your son or daughter acts up. This way you will not disturb other patrons.

Restaurants tend to be less busy right before dinner service and directly after. If you can time your meals to these off-peak hours, it may make for a more enjoyable dining experience.

Offer plenty of praise. Always let children know when they are doing a great job and behaving well in a restaurant. Engage kids in conversation and keep them entertained. Boredom or attention-seeking behavior can make dining out with youngsters more difficult to manage. A treat or a special reward (sticker or coloring book) can be offered to a child who behaves when dining out.

Be courteous and respectful. Many children will eventually act up in restaurants, and parents should respond to such instances as courteously as possible. Apologize to those around you whom your child has disturbed. Remove your son or daughter from the area and take a few moments to help him or her calm down. If kids can’t be calmed down, ask that your meal be wrapped.

Remember to clean up after yourselves and thank the waitstaff for any extra service, such as lugging a heavy high chair or providing extra silverware if kids drop any forks or spoons. Don’t leave a large mess for the server, and tip accordingly.

Children grow accustomed to dining out over time. It may take some practice, but with the right planning, families can enjoy meals away from home.

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Filed Under: Family Fun

Playful Ways to Explore Creative Dance with Kids

October 28, 2019 By Diane Turner Maller

Children are born to move. The process of achieving mobility drives them at first. Movement is further used to express thoughts and feelings, especially before words become plentiful. Primed to be in motion throughout their day, toddlers and preschoolers naturally learn by doing. The feeling of pure joy might be the only motivation needed for moving.

This natural state of motion makes early childhood an opportune time to use dance to enhance the young child’s insistent impulse to move. In Standards for Dance in Early Childhood, The National Dance Education Organization states, “Dance is a natural method for learning and a basic form of cultural expression. Children learn movement patterns as readily as they learn language.”

Despite the natural fit, creative dance has yet to find a consistent foothold in early childhood education programs. The National Dance Education Organization explains, “…while our educational systems for early childhood include drawing and singing, they often neglect to include dance.” Society at large, teachers, and parents are generally less familiar with dance than with other art forms. Opportunities to dance are usually found in private studios and are less often integrated into preschool and kindergarten programs.

To fill the gap, why not create a dance venue in your own home? It is the natural place to start. Whether you have a background in dance or not, guiding your young child’s motion is easier than you think. You don’t even have to call it “dance.”

Both parent and child have the opportunity to learn by exploring some basic dance and movement principles. Lead by example and flex your own creative muscle while moving beyond your comfort zone. Children are not the only ones who are designed to keep moving.

Start with rhyming games

Pat-a-cake, pat-a-cake baker’s man, Bake me a cake as fast as you can… As you share the timeless nursery rhymes that have been passed down from generation to generation, notice how each one has a rhythm, often with prescribed movements, that engage your young child’s attention and imagination. The silly songs remind you to laugh with your little ones. Little did you know that rhyming songs build memory capacity and help form a foundation for future literacy. Most importantly, rhyming is fun with giggles and tickles galore.

Follow the leader

Lead your child through the kitchen, around the sofa, and through the hallway. Walk, tip toe, slither, and slide your way through the house. Sing a little song or click and clack two spoons together to create sound effects that you make up to go with the traveling steps.

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Copy facial expressions first and expand from there. The possibilities are endless especially since young children learn primarily by imitation. As parents explore their own expressive capabilities, young children receive implicit permission to give full expressions of their own.

Get a rhythm

Provide rhythms for your child to copy. Soon you will be the one who is trying to keep up with your child’s convoluted manifesto. Then, bring it back down to simpler, countable rhythms. Rhythm sticks are inexpensive and may be available at your local toy store. Music books are plentiful to refresh and inform your own sense of rhythm.

Make shapes

Move to recorded music or beat a rhythm until it is time to “freeze” and make a shape. Notice something about the shapes after the fact. Strong, soft, tall, wide, curved, sharp angles are all qualities that help define shapes. Your child may have a definite idea of “Who am I” when he stops to make a shape.

Move like an animal

How does a cat move? What about a cougar? Your kids are playing like this already. Now is your chance to join in the fun.

Follow the image in the mirror.

Is your child at a developmental stage where he or she can follow your movement as if following a mirror image? This takes concentration. You are creating an opportunity for your child to develop observational skills and expand peripheral vision at the same time.

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Tell a story

Dances can tell stories. Without words, how would you dance the tale of Little Red Riding Hood? Your child can dance while you tell or read the story.

As your children grow, your dances together will evolve. Movement and dance opportunities could become part of your child’s educational program. A search in your community will likely reveal a variety of dance disciplines and performance opportunities to choose from. Some children may actively follow the impulse to pursue dance study as an expressive vehicle and as an art form.

All children can benefit from an early foundation in dance as a basis for preparing both body and mind for learning. In How the Arts Develop the Young Brain, consultant in educational neuroscience, David A. Sousa explains, “During the brain’s early years, neural connections are being made at a rapid rate. Much of what young children do as play – singing, drawing, dancing – are natural forms of art. These activities engage all the senses and wire the brain for successful learning.”

A key to cultivating the freedom to move and for sharing memorable experiences with your children is to employ dance as an active force in your home. Some of the best dances happen in the kitchen. Music has the power to bring family members together and dancing has a way of making all the chores that much lighter. Pass out the dishtowels, put on your apron, turn up the music, and give us your best moves.


By Diane Turner Maller, a freelance writer who holds an MS in Dance from the University of Oregon. She has pursued her love of dance through performance, teaching, and an enduring enjoyment of social dancing with family and friends.

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Filed Under: Family Fun

Pick-Your-Own Farms in New Jersey

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

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Strawberry season is fairly short — from late May to early June — but many farms also offer pick-your-own blueberries, raspberries, cherries, peaches, peas, and other fruit and vegetable picking all summer long.

See below for a list of nearby pick-your-own farms in New Jersey, all of which are less than an hour and a half’s drive from Staten Island.  **Always call ahead to confirm before you head out, as picking schedules often vary and may change due to weather and crop availability.**

Alstede Farms
1 Alstede Farms Lane, Chester, NJ 07930
908-879-7189 •alstedefarms.com
Pick your own: strawberries, currants, red and black raspberries, blueberries, cut your own flowers and sunflowers, sweet corn, vegetables, peaches, cantaloupe, nectarines, honeydew, canary melon, Asian pears, blackberries, elderberries
Strawberry Harvest Festival: June 8, 9, 15 & 16

Battleview Orchards
91 Wemrock Rd, Freehold, NJ
732-462-0756 • battlevieworchards.com
Pick your own: strawberries, sour cherries, peaches, nectarines

Bonacorsi Family Farm
1137 Croton Rd., Flemington NJ
609-638-0048 • bonacorsifamilyfarm.com
Pick your own: strawberries, raspberries, blackberries

Califon Farm Market & Orchards
472 County Road Rt. 513 Califon, NJ
908-832-2905 • melickstownfarm.com
Pick your own: peaches

Donaldson Farms
358 Allen Rd., Hackettstown, NJ
908-852-9122 • donaldsonfarms.net
Pick your own: strawberries, raspberries, blackberries
Strawberry Harvest Weekends: Saturdays and Sundays during the month of June

Giamarese Farm & Orchard
155 Fresh Pond Rd., East Brunswick NJ
732-821-9494 • giamaresefarm.com
Pick your own: strawberries, peas, peaches

Johnson’s Farm
133 Church Rd. Medford, NJ
609-654-8643 • johnsonsfarm.com
Pick your own: strawberries, sugar snap peas, cherries, blueberries
Strawberry Harvest Festival: May 24-26 & May 31 – June 2

Lee Turkey Farm
201 Hickory Corner Rd., East Windsor NJ
609-448-0629 • leeturkeyfarm.com
Pick your own: strawberries, cherries, sauce apples, peaches, melons, raspberries, nectarines, pears, blackberries, raspberries, vegetables and more

Oldwick Farm
170 Oldwick Road, Oldwick, NJ
908-439-2955 • melickstownfarm.com
Pick your own: strawberries

Peterson Farm
438 Quakertown Rd., Flemington NJ
908-782-0707 • petersonfarm.net
Pick your own: strawberries

Phillips Farms
290 Church Rd., Milford NJ
908-995-0022 • phillipsfarms.com
Pick your own: strawberry, blueberry, blackberry, red and black raspberry, peach, apple

Snyder’s Farm
586 South Middlebush Rd., Somerset NJ
732-496-0441 • snyders-farm.com
Pick your own: strawberries, blueberries

Sussex County Strawberry Farm
565 Rt. 206 N., Andover NJ
973-579-5055 • sussexcountystrawberryfarm.com
Pick your own: strawberries, blueberries

Terhune Orchards
330 Cold Soil Rd., Princeton NJ
609-924-2310 • terhuneorchards.com
Pick your own: strawberries, asparagus, cherries, blueberries, blackberries, peaches

Von Thun Farms
519 Ridge Rd., Monmouth Junction NJ
732-329-8656 • vonthunfarms.com
Pick your own: strawberries, blueberries, raspberries, apples
Strawberry Harvest Festival: June 15 & 16

Wemrock Orchard
300 Rt. 33 W., Freehold
732-431-2668 • wemrockorchard.com
Pick your own: strawberries

Filed Under: Family Fun

Fatherhood Gives a New Meaning to “Time”

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

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There was a point in the first two weeks after my son, Mason, was born where I went five days on only eight hours of sleep. You could say that the transition into fatherhood was not the smoothest transition of my life. Briefs to boxers was smooth, as was going from a flip phone to a smartphone (this change is less than 6 months old if you can believe it.). When I say I’m not the same man I was before I became a father, it’s not just that fatherhood is this awesome experience, and it’s not because making a new life was this mind blowing epiphany of joy and love in forming new life out of a handful of stem cells. I mean it is those things too, sure, but the reason I say I’m a new person is because the first two weeks literally shattered me as if childbirth was my soul’s resonating frequency.

Pre-birth Joe had a nice easygoing life that involved things like social calls with friends at whatever time of day he would feel like. I almost exclusively slept to 10 AM at the minimum unless work kept me from it. I would mention that I used to stay up to the wee hours of the morning, but we all know that that doesn’t change when you have a kid, just the reasons change. I was never stressed or worried about things because I always felt like I had time. Glorious time! I basked in it and flaunted it. I would make it rain in hours over things like YouTube and a plethora of various videogames and things. I was riding high with time coming out of my ears. If I didn’t feel like doing something, who cares! Let’s just try to get it done next week.

Then the baby came…and my comfy world filled with all this extra time came crashing down around me. I was an absolute wreck. Now I had this wad of mushy pink flesh in front of me that needed to be fed every 3-4 hours or else it could DIE!! I not prepared for that. And every time it ate, it pooped! So every time I fed him, I had to then change him. Then I’d have to calm him down because at first he was not very happy with my diaper changing style. I could only describe it as a Jackson Pollock painting being done in reverse. Just me frantically swiping helter skelter at the poop till it was gone. Then you either try to get him to do something if it’s day, or get him to sleep if it’s naptime or nighttime.

All of a sudden the only thing my life had time for was “Make sure the baby isn’t dead yet.” That’s all I cold think of. The thoughts and worries just formed a black hole of anxiety that just sat on my chest, weighing on me night and day. It was the reason I didn’t sleep those five days. You would think it would be hard for me to admit to the world that I was bad at this, but it’s life, we evolve, and I did, too. But not without a lot of help.

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I’m so lucky that I have an absolutely amazing wife who doesn’t get nearly enough credit and appreciation for the great work she’s done. If I didn’t have her I couldn’t even begin to think of the struggle parenting would be for me. And to that, I really must tilt my hat to all the single parents of the world. I could never be what you are, I know my limits.

It wasn’t until a few weeks after zero hour that I started to get a handle on myself. The ball of anxiety sitting just below my heart started to ebb as I realized that my son wasn’t this incredibly fragile thing that would fall apart if I sneezed too hard while holding him. In all honesty, my son was built Ford Tough and I couldn’t be more thankful for that. I was sleeping again every so often, and life was taking on a more typical feeling again. Time was starting to come back to me; it wasn’t sifting through my fingers like confectioner’s sugar anymore.

As I got more and more time here and there, I was always thinking to myself, “Ok Joe, what can we get done today?” And I was, like, doing the things I thought of! It was revolutionary! And then when I was done doing those things, the things were no longer things I had to do! So I could then do other things! It’s so sad that this had to be a Eureka! moment for me that was only brought on by my entire way of life being flayed away from me. I’ve never been so happy to have been flayed! You’d think I would have changed my last name to Bolton!

Becoming a father has made me a much better man than I once was. It taught me a value that in the almost three decades of my life I had not learned. Every second counts. Every minute and every hour. What you do with them makes you who you are. Of course, that means that I still am me to a smaller extent, so I do still play the occasional videogame, or watch the occasional YouTube video, or read, and that’s ok. It’s just not all of me any more. And for that I could not be more grateful for what bringing a tiny human into this world has done for me. Thank you, Mason.

By Joseph Mastropiero, a Staten Island dad who blogs about his fatherhood experience.

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This Is How to Host an Amazing First Communion Party

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

Receiving the Sacrament of the Eucharist is a momentous event in a young Christian’s life, marking one of the first steps he or she takes in individual faith formation. Children who receive the Eucharist are further initiated into the church and this enables them to receive Communion at each and every mass thereafter, provided they remain in good standing with the church.

Christian families place great significance on the Eucharist and most want to commemorate the occasion with a party. Some people treat it as they would a wedding or Sweet 16 party, inviting friends and extended family members. Others prefer to keep the celebration a bit more intimate. Regardless of the size of the party, there are some tips to make it a memorable affair that’s fun for everyone.

Don’t start planning until you confirm the date of the ceremony. Some churches have one date on which they hold a special mass to administer all candidates. Others may stagger the ceremonies over the course of several dates and may intertwine their Eucharist ceremonies with the regular mass schedule. Either way, parents should confirm the date months in advance so they have ample time to schedule parties and shop for appropriate attire.

Reserve your date quickly. Once you know the date of the ceremony, do not delay if you plan to hold a party at a restaurant or intend to hire a caterer for a party at home. Not only will you be competing for dates with other Communion parties, but you’ll also be going up against April or May weddings and graduation parties. If there is a particular restaurant or banquet hall you have in mind, reserve the date quickly and leave a deposit to secure the reservation. Great restaurants like Lorenzo’s, located on South Ave, are in high demand throughout the spring, so Staten Islanders should always book early.

Order invitations, favors, and decorations early. Speaking of decorations, reach out to a Deer Park flower shop in advance, so you have ample enough time to adorn the venue. Invitations should be sent four to six weeks prior to the event, so it is a good idea to order them as far ahead of time as possible. Mailing or emailing “Save the Date” cards once you have booked the event will help reduce scheduling conflicts for guests. Favors and decorations should be ordered at least two months in advance to ensure a timely arrival. Any personalized items will take extra time to process before shipping, so be sure to order these several months before the big day as well.

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Book a great photographer. You’ll always want to remember how precious your child looked in his or her Communion attire, so hire a professional photographer to capture the most unforgettable moments of the day. Spring is a popular time for parties, so choose the right photographer for you and book them ASAP. Get a list of local photographers.

Consider a catered affair. Very often a Communion reception takes place shortly after the ceremony at church. This means guests will go directly from the church to the party. Catering the party will ensure food is ready as your guests arrive and cut down on the amount of preparatory work you will have to do. Local establishments like A Taste of Honey, South Shore Bar & Grill and Bario’s are fantastic options for on/off premises catering.

Hire entertainment. If the party will be a larger affair with a number of children in attendance, it may pay to hire an entertainer like a magician, balloon artist or deejay to keep everyone entertained and occupied. You can check out S.I. Parent’s Magazine’s Party Services page to start your search. Again, you’ll need to reserve your entertainers early on to guarantee availability. Remember to give the deejay a playlist that will include music for all ages in attendance.

A young person receiving the Sacrament of the Eucharist is something worth celebrating. Ensure your party is a success by planning out the details in advance and hosting the best party you can within your desired budget.

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