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2019 / Archives for October 2019

Archives for October 2019

“Ready, Set, Pokemon Go”… But Use Caution!

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

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Community Education Council 31 President and former NYPD Lieutenant Michael Reilly weighs in on the new app sweeping the nation.

You may have seen adults and kids alike moving aimlessly around our parks and other public places., looking down at their smart phones. Many of them are probably playing the new interactive game known as Pokemon Go.

The game places virtual Pokemon in public locations using geo-locations, which are map coordinates that can be tracked like Google maps. The Pokemon are strategically placed in Parks, amusement attractions, museums, and other prominent public locations. The object of the game is to find as many Pokemon as possible and catch them by pointing your smart phone at them.

While on our recent family vacation to Orlando, Florida, my son was engulfed in the Pokemon Go craze. He was circling our resort and met a young worker playing Pokemon Go in between transporting guests in his golf cart. The pair joined forces and traveled the complex searching for the characters. While visiting Universal Studios, we discovered there were several hundred Pokemon across the park. We even observed a Universal Studios crew member playing as we left the park at closing.

So when you see kids and adults walking with their heads down glued to their phones, they are probably searching the area for the illustrious little virtual critters. The game was introduced in the United States in early July and has spread like wildfire. On a positive note it has moved gamers from the couch to the outdoors, logging multiple miles while walking to find Pokemon.

Although it is getting people moving, it does present some danger. There have been several reports of people falling in ditches, suffering foot and leg injuries as they walk around searching for the Pokemon. There have even been instances of people playing while bicycling and driving. Unfortunately, this has the potential to make our roads even more dangerous.

CRIME IMPACT

As we recently read about in Missouri, colliding virtual gaming with the real world can provide a prime opportunity for the criminal element. Some teenagers have used the opportunity to commit robberies at gunpoint on unsuspecting victims arriving at desolate public places to retrieve the Pokemon.

Sadly, this new game may open a new opportunity for pedophiles to seek out young victims. There is a segment of the game that allows a player to create a “Gym” which places several Pokemon in the same location to lure participants to the location with hopes of catching a large number of Pokemon at once.

The internet and social media have presented many challenges for parents. We must continually remind our children not to agree to meet strangers they interact with online because they may not be who they appear to be. This new real world interactive gaming is no different. We must remain vigilant and discuss the potential hazards.

Talk to your kids and remind them to always be aware of their surroundings, especially when playing the virtual treasure hunt game.

mike reillyBy Community Education Council 31 President Michael Reilly.

Filed Under: Family Fun

Having a Movie Night?

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

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Here are, according to Moviefone, twenty five titles of kid-friendly flicks that are sure to be a hit with the entire family:

The LEGO Movie (2014)
Chicken Run (2000)
Elf (2003)
My Neighbor Totoro (1988)
The Muppet Movie (1979)
Big (1988)
How to Train Your Dragon (2010)
Jurassic Park (1993)
Beauty and the Beast (1991)
Monsters, Inc. (2001)
E.T. (1982)
Up (2009)
Star Wars Episode IV: A New Hope (1977)
The Sound of Music (1965)
Home Alone (1990)
Annie (1982)
Harry Potter Franchise (2001)
The Princess Bride (1987)
WALL-E (2008)
Babe (1995)
Frozen (2013)
Mary Poppins (1964)
The Lion King (1994)
Toy Story (1995)
The Wizard of Oz (1939)

Filed Under: Family Fun

Balanced Activities Equals Well-Rounded Kids

October 28, 2019 By Christine Albano

Allowing Enrichment Activities Without Adding Stress

Every parent wants their child to be well-rounded and develop additional talents beyond excelling academically, and after school enrichment programs can be the answer.

Whether you are considering sports, theater, or martial arts, or music, ballet, or art lessons for your youngster, experts say everything from scheduling and to financial commitments can help make the selection easier.

The most important criteria for determining a child’s activity is their age, according to several experts we spoke with recently.

The best age to introduce drama and theatre is kindergarten at age five or six, according to Nicole Hermansen, who runs a theater group at four Island schools, called “Standing Ovation Players.”

Even at that young age, students can learn the basic terminology of a stage production, while vocal lessons should be introduced at around age eight, she noted.

“We have found that the best timing for scheduling classes with kids is directly after school or on Saturday mornings,” she explained.

“The skill level of each child determines their work load,” according to Ms. Hermansen, who runs her company with Fiona Gannon at St. Teresa’s School, St. Joseph Hill Academy, Our Lady of Good Counsel, and P.S 38.

Magi Kapllani, owner and director of DEA Music & Art School, recommends elementary school children take individualized lessons once a week for 30 minutes.

“They can add more classes depending on their skills and grade level,” Kapllani said. Trial classes can help them decide which instrument is best for them, she added. “This will give them a real feel to see how it works,” Mrs. Kapllani noted.

Diane Bush, owner of Dance, Dance, Dance in West Brighton, also suggests a monthly trial.

Three-year-olds should maintain one class for 60-90 min. weekly as to not overwhelm them, especially if they suffer from separation anxiety, according to Ms. Bush, who has owned and operated the school with her sister, Karen, for 32 years.

Older dancers can take an average of two and a half to three hours of instruction a week, while dancers on the competition team put in six to eight hours a week.

“Dance is something that takes years to master — it’s not an instant gratification sport,” Ms. Bush explained. “It takes years to mold the body a certain way.”

Dance and martial arts are two of the enrichment programs the experts here say can give students invaluable life skills.

“It’s a real confidence booster,” Ms. Bush said of dance.

Joanne McKernan, a Great Kills resident, said her son, Peter, 13, found a love of Tae Kwon Do at the age of seven after taking a few trial classes and is now awaiting promotion to third-degree black belt.

“I feel this type of training helped him focus, it helped him with his self esteem, it helped his maturity level, Mrs. McKernan added.

A $140 monthly fee allows Peter McKernan to attend twice a week — and the option of a Saturday class, a schedule he has juggled successfully over the years as his mom felt it was flexible enough not to interfere with his academics, and the tuition was affordable.

Many of the enrichment programs offer monthly or quarterly payment plans to make it economical for parents — especially if they have more than one child, or more than one program.

Martial arts can be the right choice for students who want to learn discipline, character, respect, and courage, according to Shihan Carmel Sorrento, owner of Legend Karate in Midland Beach.

“We teach structured learning and we try to instill trust, patience, and eye-hand coordination, so it does enable them to go into other sports,” she said.

She recommends younger students from age four to six attend classes two days a week for continuity, but not more than that. “We don’t push it,” she said.

Meanwhile, Thomas Cordes, 9, followed in his brothers’ footsteps on the basketball court, according to his mother, Jennifer Cordes. “They have a lot of interest in it,” she said.

Her older sons, Matthew, 13, and Christopher, 12, play travel basketball, which Mrs. Cordes’ husband, Chris, said can cost up to $500 just to join the team — not to mention the cost of gas, tolls, and lodging.

The timing is also a consideration, Mrs. Cordes said. Thomas spends no more than one to two hours a week playing basketball, while his brothers play five hours on average, not including the weekend traveling. “They do all their school work first, and practice is later,” their mom said.

By Christine Albano

Look through the pages of SI Parent magazine to find the perfect activity for your child, or check the directory listings on our home page.

Filed Under: Family Fun

Summer Sales for School Supplies

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

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School’s out for the summer and kids are enjoying alarm-free mornings and homework-free afternoons. While parents are likely more focused on planning vacations and keeping their kids occupied, summer is a good time to pick up select school supplies for the upcoming season. Taking advantage of summer sales means spreading out the cost of back-to-school supplies, which in 2015 cost families an average of $630.

While electronics and basic supplies are better purchased in August, the following items can be purchased over the summer at a discount.

1. Basic Apparel Styles
Starting Memorial Day weekend, spring and summer apparel staples including tees, tank tops, shorts, and skirts go on sale as retailers try to woo consumers who are otherwise focused on outdoor activities. These basics are great for back-to-school because they can be worn during the first several weeks of school and as layers when the weather starts to cool off. Look for savings of 20% to 50% off, and use online resources like Retale and Flipp to scan store circulars digitally and compare discounts between retailers like Target, JCPenney, Kohl’s, and more.

2. Uniform Garments
Though kids are not focused on school during the summer months, retailers know parents are always thinking ahead. In the past, uniform basics like polos, skirts, and slacks are offered at a discount from retailers ranging from Macy’s to Old Navy to Lands’ End.

3. Athletic Apparel & Goods

Parents of athletic kids know how expensive sporting gear can be at the start of each new season. Fourth of July sales often feature deals from such retailers as Dick’s Sporting Goods, Sports Authority, and Big 5 Sporting Goods. During the first two weeks in July last year, for example, Sports Authority offered savings of up to 40% on football gear, while Big 5 Sporting Goods offered discounts on name-brand competitive swimwear. Look for stackable discounts from sites like
CouponSherpa.com, where you can sometimes find coupons with extra percentages off your purchases.

4. Furnishings for the College Bound

Grown-up kids heading back to college can find deep discounts on furniture basics in July. New styles of furniture debut in February and August, making the month prior to each of these events a great time to pick up clearance styles for less. Last year, Target and Kohl’s offered great discounts on furniture in July. In addition to department stores and furniture shops, scout online stores like Overstock and Wayfair, both of which offer a huge selection of furniture and discounted or even free shipping.

5. Double-Duty Supplies

While some supplies are better purchased at the end of summer, items your child can use right now and later are a good buy. For example, a new travel backpack can double as a school backpack once class starts, and online retailer eBags typically has discounts and sales of some kind to help offset the cost. Same goes for crayons and markers, which can be used during family road trips and at the start of class. One way to save money on double-duty items that aren’t yet on sale is to sign up for retail e-mail clubs. You can often score 10% to 25% off with a new-member discount.

Filed Under: Family Fun

Parents, Kids, & Homework: Knowing How to Help

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

If the thought of helping your child with his afterschool assignments makes you nervous, we have the tips to help you tackle tough topics.

It’s been ages since you’ve tackled an algebra assignment, and now your child is home with a backpack full of homework and needs some guidance. This time around, though, mastering multiplication problems seems harder than it used to be. If you don’t feel fully equipped to help him through his study struggles, and the question ‘should I learn French?’ incessantly bugs you, here are a few ways you or your partner can still pitch in – without homework hour sounding like nails on a chalkboard.

Don’t Fake It

Don’t try to muddle through homework you don’t understand. Pretending you’re a geography guru will lead to mass confusion (we’re pretty sure Orlando is not the capital of Florida). Instead, when you’ve reached a roadblock, send an e-mail to the teacher for clarification or touch base with her at drop-off and request extra resources on the topic. “Avoid trying to learn something quickly,” says Neil McNerney, author of Homework: A Parent’s Guide to Helping Out Without Freaking Out. “This has backfired on me numerous times because my kids can always tell.” Attempting to wing it will probably confuse your child and distract her from her teacher’s explanation.

Ask Professor Google

The marvels of modern technology can come in handy if a particular problem has you scratching your head. “Use the Internet,” McNerney says. “There are amazing teaching tools online that can help with a homework issue.” A quick search on the Internet can often provide the clarity you need or jar some basic academic concepts back to the forefront of your mind. There are also online forums (including subscription-based ones) dedicated to certain subjects that can help you brush up your skills. McNerney recommends The Khan Academy for math, and CyberSleuth Kids offers free study help for subjects including language arts and science.

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Create a Homework Hotline 

Don’t hesitate to phone a friend – take some time to identify the areas you don’t excel in and create a roster of people you know who are adept in those subjects, such as your science-minded spouse and your history-buff neighbor, and who would be willing to help when you and your child are stumped. Ask your child to suggest contacts as well, so he’ll feel comfortable reaching out for help when you can’t support him. If his school has a class blog or online Listserv, have him note and create a list of kids in his class whom he can count on. Chances are, there is always someone who can help. Consider using your social-media network to broaden your group of smarty-pants backups. A post on Facebook, Twitter, or other networking site may soon lead to your newsfeed being jam-packed with information on the Constitution or tips on how to craft a haiku.

Don’t Mix Dinner and Diagrams

If you’re attempting to make dinner while trying to master the order of the planets in the solar system, there is guaranteed to be a mix-up along the way. Doing everything plus a side of fractions is going to create a tense, distracted environment. “Getting frustrated and emotional in front of a child does not help the situation,” says Joshua Langberg, Ph.D., a school psychologist and assistant professor of psychology at Virginia Commonwealth University. “This leads to arguments between the parent and child.” Your ability to comprehend an assignment may be hindered if you don’t read it properly. So before you stress about what you don’t know, take a break and give it a second glance later on, when you can focus.

Invest in a Tutor

If your child is really struggling with homework and you aren’t able to help him, consider finding and investing in a tutor. Dr. Langberg points out that the transition to middle school means heavier workloads and tougher assignments from multiple teachers, so as elementary school years come to an end, it may be a good time to enlist outside help.

By Andrea Stanley of Eye Level • www.eyelevelny.com

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Filed Under: School, Camp and Education

How to Throw a Birthday Party for Your Sensory Sensitive Child

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

Birthdays. They come once a year and are usually met with much anticipation and excitement by the celebrated boy or girl. When you think birthdays, you think balloons, cake, ice cream, friends and presents, right? Those are all wonderful traditions but what happens when you have a child who actually acts out (in a defiant) way, when all of these good things are going on around them? Children with Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD) want to be celebrated like any other child but for the parents who have to watch the tailspin of emotions that come from what was supposed to be a great day to what has now become a dreaded occasion – can be very tough. Let these 6 tips help you celebrate and enjoy your child on their birthday because when it really comes down to it, they want to be loved on just like everyone else.

1. Bigger isn’t always better.

I used to tell myself that I had to invite every single one of my son’s friends to his birthday party in order for it to be a success. Wrong. The more kids I invited, the more hyper he got because there was just too much going on for him to focus on what the occasion was really about; him. Now we let him invite one friend to do one special thing and the focus becomes about the experience and not the behavior.

2. No hype.

Remind your child that her birthday is coming up and that you are so excited to be celebrating her special day. Talk to her about her very first birthday and share photos with her from years past. If you want to take this up a notch, take her to all the Birthday Party locations that you’ve been to, and make her reminisce of the memories. Instill the idea that the day she was born was one of the best days of your life and that you are so thankful to have her has as your daughter. This special moment will prioritize what is really important about her upcoming day; that she is happy, healthy and loved. Sometimes when parents build up the big day, it can become too overwhelming for their child to understand. No need to down play the big day but do not build so much anticipation that your child is unrealistic about what to expect.

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3. Kids who are sensory seeking

(Like loud noises, have a hard time understanding personal space, are loud, and in general, pretty hyper) are easily swept up in the chaos that can come with a birthday party. Think outside the box and invite one or two friends to keep the noise level to a minimum to help your child function on his special day. Visit vegaspartypeople.com/las-vegas-party-bus-rentals/ to get the most value for your dollar.

4. Kids who are sensory avoiding

(Get stressed out by loud noises, do not like to be touched, get overwhelmed when there are multiple things going on) will most likely act out if they cannot process what is going on around them. Remove the obstacles before the party even begins and set your child up for success. Instead of latex balloons that pop easily and make loud noises that can scare children, opt for Mylar balloons. They last longer and are less likely to pop. Instead of buying your child 10 gifts that she will likely forget about once she has opened them, buy her two or three gifts that you know she will get lots of play out of and that are equally beneficial to her (necklace-making kit, dinosaur excavation kit or water beads). It is simply too much for a child with sensory issues to be expected to sit still in front of 20 people, opening gifts, saying thank you, and remaining calm. Know your child’s limits and work around them.

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5. Pick the right time of day.

If you know your son is usually grumpy in the morning but acts pretty happy in the afternoon, then plan a get together in the afternoon. If you have a big family and you know your child does not do well with lots of people around, turn his birthday into a birth-week and space out when he sees people. This will be more fun for everyone involved. Family gets a chance to celebrate and notice the birthday boy and you get to be around an equally happy child who is more likely to act appropriately when the attention is directed at him.

6. Don’t expect too much.

If you notice that everything going on around her is overwhelming your child, then take a time out. Let your child have a few minutes to herself to collect her thoughts and take things down a notch. Maybe instead of playing Pin the Tail on the Donkey, you opt for a coloring contest where each person gets a prize for participating. Children with SPD have a hard time understanding social situations that other people just simply know how to handle. Take the drama out of a birthday meltdown and create an environment where everyone wins.

Celebrating a birthday can be bittersweet for the parents of children with SPD. Most likely, we have thought of every way possible to make the day a great one for our child, only to be disappointed when they act out from not being able to process all that is going on around them. This heavy weight of guilt washes over us as if we cannot breathe and we start to question whether or not we are good parents for only allowing our child to invite one friend to his party. Let go of the guilt and accept the reality for what it is. Your child functions better when things are simple. Celebrate that and while you are at it, celebrate the fact that you and your child have made it one more year growing in this SPD world together.

Meagan Ruffing is a parenting journalist with a sensory seeking and sensory avoiding child. She encourages other parents to learn as much as they can about their child’s diagnosis to help cultivate a happy and healthy home environment for the entire family. • www.meaganruffing.com

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