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2019 / Archives for October 2019

Archives for October 2019

Valentine’s Love Bots

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

valentines love bots

Boot up your creativity this Valentines Day with these adorable Valentine Love Bots! You and your little sweethearts can even create a whole Love Bot family together. Here’s how to make them.

Materials:
Googly eyes
Tape
Glue
Scissors
Marker
Pipe cleaners
Valentine’s Day decorations such as hearts
2-5 used 6.75-ounce Juicy Juice boxes
Valentine’s Day gift wrap

Step 1 – Wrap your empty juice box in Valentine’s Day gift wrap using glue or tape.
Step 2 – Use glue to adhere your robot’s eyes in place.
Step 3 – Now it’s time for the arms! Use glue or tape to adhere your robot’s arms (pipe cleaners) in place.
Step 4 – Continue to bring your robot to life by using tape or glue to add another pipe cleaner to the top of the robot’s head.
Step 5 – Use a marker to draw your robot’s mouth.
Step 6 – Decorate with the supplies of your choice! We used red, white and pink hearts.
Step 7 – Repeat Steps 1-6 at least once or twice to create a whole robot family!

Printed with permission from Juicy Juice. See more crafts at juicyjuice.com.

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Filed Under: Family Fun

What Are the Types of Camps and What Questions Should I Ask When Deciding On a Camp?

October 28, 2019 By Staten Island Parent Staff

It’s time to consider summer camp options. We know what you’re thinking. It’s freezing outside! Who’s already thinking about camp? The truth is, now is the time to start thinking about where and how your child will be spending their summer. Summer camp open houses will be starting soon – March or even earlier – and many will be full not long after the registration period begins. To ensure your child makes the most of his or her summer vacation, start researching camps now and you will be ready when it’s time to sign up.

There are various types of summer camps, each offering youngsters something different. With camps to meet every interest, price range, and schedule, camping can be good for anyone! The following are some of the summer camp options parents can expect to encounter as they search for the right experience for their little campers.

Day camp

Day camps are not overnight camps, which means kids will return home each night rather than sleep over at camp. Day camps typically offer many of the activities people have come to associate with camps, including crafts, sports and even day-trips to experience local museums or attractions. Many day camps are co-ed, and counselors typically live within the community.

Sports camp

Some summer camps focus on a particular sport, catering to young athletes who want to further develop their athletic talents. Sports camps may feature guest lectures and lessons from notable local athletes and coaches, while some camps may provide instruction from current and/or former professional athletes. Some sports camps are overnight, while others are day camps.

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Special interest camp

Some camps focus entirely on one particular activity that will serve the main interest of its campers. Campers will spend the majority of their time on this main activity. Types of special interest camps could include drama, nature, computer/technology, dance, music, art, or science/math. There are many special interest camp options right here in Staten Island.

Faith-based camp

Faith-based camps offer many of the same activities as more traditional summer camps, but do so while simultaneously offering campers the opportunity to celebrate and further explore their religious beliefs. Some faith-based camps may focus heavily on religion, incorporating faith into daily camp activities, while others may be more subtle with regard to integrating religious beliefs and lessons into camp activities.

Camp for children with special needs

There are many camps that accommodate children with special needs. Staff at these camps typically undergoes extensive training, which helps to calm some of the fears parents may have about leaving their children at camp. Facilities are often built to accommodate the specific needs of these campers.

Questions to Consider in Selecting a Day Camp:

  • What is a typical day like? Can the children select their activities or do they follow a strict schedule?
  • Are parent visits permitted? Can you “drop in” any time or is there a parent visit day?
  • What is the ratio of counselors to campers? For day camps, the American Camp Association guidelines call for one staff member for every six campers ages 4 and 5; eight campers ages 6 to 8; one staff member for every 10 campers ages 9 to 14; and one staff member for every 12 campers ages 15 to 17. ACA standards also include the need to train staff to minimize 1:1 camper/staff interactions when out of sight of others.
  • What are the qualifications and training requirements for the staff? Are there Counselors in Training (CIT)? You may want to consider a CIT program if your teen is aging out of the camping experience.
  • What is included in the camp fee? Is there an extra charge for certain activities, camp shirt, food, lessons, field trips, transportation, extended care?
  • Is there a lunch program, or do campers bring their own lunch, drinks, and snacks? Will it be kept in a refrigerator or cooler? Are their food/drink restrictions?
  • Is transportation available, and is it door-to-door?
  • Is there a before and/or after care program?
  • Is there a pool or other water activities? If there is a pool, is there a lifeguard on duty? Are swimming lessons offered?
  • How are discipline issues resolved?
  • Is the camp accredited? ACA collaborates with experts from the American Academy of Pediatrics, the American Red Cross, and other youth-serving agencies to be sure required practices are current and sound.
  • What is the camp policy regarding cell phones and other technology items brought to camp?

If you are considering a Day Camp, the American Camp Association (ACA) recommends considering your child’s interests, personality, and maturity level. Be certain to include your child in the decision-making process. Together with your child, research camp options and examine the information the camps provide. Many camps have web sites that include a good overview of what they have to offer. There may be photos, maps or virtual tours of the camp facility, sample daily schedules and menus, and information about the directors and key staff. As children become better acquainted with the camp experience and are more involved in the decision-making process, they will have less anxiety about going to camp.

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Filed Under: School, Camp and Education

Coaching with Cancer

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

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Local Coach Scott Kain is Down in the Count, But Still Swinging

Scott Kain has had two strikes on him for 41 years — but he keeps fouling off life’s nastiest pitches to remain in the at bat he calls life. It’s why his older brother Mark says simply: “I’m related to a true warrior.”

Scott Kain, 54, is a travel baseball coach on Staten Island, but his most serious battles have nothing to do with baseball. Over the last 41 years, he has endured two massive brain tumors, tongue cancer, bladder cancer, countless hours in surgery and hundreds of hours of body-wracking treatment. A recent scan showed more health challenges ahead.

But Scott doesn’t let it deter him from living a full life — and that includes coaching. Though the chemotherapy and radiation might slow him down, he expects to be on the coaching lines Memorial Day weekend when his 16-and-under Line Drive team opens its season.

“I’ve got a good team of boys with beautiful parents,” said Kain, who coached his team to a championship last summer. “It might take me a little longer to get from the dugout to the third-base coaching box, but I least I can get there.”

Scott’s health challenges started when he was 12. He had just finished catching a game at Mid-Island Little League when a coach tapped him on the back of the head and said “nice game.” The pain from that tap was excruciating. Scott told his mom and got checked out. Doctors discovered a brain tumor and he underwent surgery at Memorial Sloan Kettering.

“They couldn’t get it all,” Kain said. “They gave me radiation and chemotherapy. My parents were told I had a 10 percent chance of living another 18 months.”

The good thing, he added, is that his family never treated him like someone facing a death sentence.

“Looking back, it was my mother, father and brother who were the strong ones,” he said. “They never babied me or treated me as a sick kid.”

A year later, Kain recalls, he had a Babe Ruth League playoff game, but had to get a chemo treatment first.

“I got to the game in the third inning,” he said. “My manager put me in to pinch hit.  I got a single. When I reached first base I called timeout, then went behind the dugout and threw up.”

Kain refused to leave the game. “Not after going through all that trouble to get there,” he said.

He was relatively fine until 1985 when, as a 20-year-old, he took a job at Dow Jones. One day, six months into the job, he developed vision problems.

“It looked like there were a million people walking at me, but there were only a few,” he said. It was discovered he had “a tumor the size of an orange on my optic nerve.”

A 10-hour surgery followed but, again, not all of the tumor could be removed. More chemo treatments kept any future problems at bay — until 13 years later when a bump on his tongue turned out to be cancerous.

“Other than losing a piece of my tongue and all of my lymph nodes, and speaking with a little lisp, it’s turned out OK,” he said.

Fast forward to age 50 and newly remarried, when he took a line drive to the ankle at a baseball practice and the swelling refused to go down. Tests revealed he had bladder cancer. Kain’s greatest concern was how to break the news to his new wife Stephanie and daughter Allyson.

“I realized how tough it must have been for my own family when I first got sick and I didn’t want to go through that,” Kain said. “When my daughter was born — Aug. 10. 1993 — I got down on my knee and said, ‘God, I am going to ask you one thing: Please keep my daughter and my other family members healthy. If someone has to get sick, give it to me.’

“So when I got bladder cancer, I couldn’t be upset. I knew that was our deal — mine and God’s. At least I know my daughter, my nephews and my other family members are going to be OK.”

He underwent 11 hours of surgery to remove and build a new bladder. Through it all, he has kept “a smile on his face with most positive attitude,” Mark attested.

“What do I have to sulk about?” Scott said. “I own two businesses and four racehorses. I was told I could never have children because of all the radiation, but I have a wonderful daughter. I have a beautiful wife and a tremendously close family.”

His involvement with the Line Drive organization has also given him more time with his brother Mark and nephews “little” Mark and Thomas, all of whom are involved.

He received nearly a dozen calls from former players, wishing him Happy New Year, as well as get-well wishes from appreciative parents and the children he’s coached.

“The kids know I’m sick,” he said. “They play so hard for me. I love every single one of them like they’re my family.  These kids help give me a purpose.”

“I truly believe that as long as I have faith, friends and family, anything is possible.”

By local sportswriter Joe LoVerde, who coached youth sports on Staten Island for nearly 40 years.

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Filed Under: Family Fun Tagged With: sports

Cozy Winter Soups

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

There’s nothing like a bowl of hearty soup to warm you up on a chilly night. But by February, you’ve probably made more pots of chicken soup or beef stew than you can count. Try something different before the winter is over and you might have a new cold weather go-to for soup night. Here are a few of our favorites:

Rich Potato Leek Soup

Ready Time: 45min
Serves 6

3 Tablespoons olive oil
1 onion, diced
3 leeks, white and light green parts sliced
3 carrots, peeled and diced
3 stalks celery, finely chopped
3 cloves garlic, minced
5 small or 3 medium russet potatoes, peeled and diced
salt and pepper, to taste
1 Tablespoon fresh thyme, chopped
5 cups vegetable broth
Parmesan Croutons:
2 cups whole wheat bread cut into 1″ chunks
2 Tablespoons olive oil
¼ cup shredded Parmesan cheese
salt and pepper, to taste

1. In large soup pot, add olive oil over medium-high heat.
2. Add onion, leeks, carrots, celery, garlic, and potatoes, season with salt and pepper, and cook until softened, about 10-12 minutes.
3. Add thyme and vegetable broth, and bring to a simmer.
4. Reduce heat and let cook for 15 more minutes, until potatoes are softened.
5. Using an immersion blender or high-powered blender, puree until smooth.
For the Parmesan Croutons:
6. Preheat oven to 375 °F.
7. Add olive oil to a bowl, then add bread cubes, tossing to coat.
8. Toss with cheese and season with salt and pepper.
9. Place on baking sheet and bake in preheated oven for 8-10 minutes, until golden.

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Smoky Turkey Lentil Chili

Ready time: 45 Minutes
Serves: 6-8

2 lbs ground turkey
1 1/2 cups whole green lentils
1 Tbsp olive oil
1 large onion, diced
3 garlic cloves, crushed
2 28 oz cans diced tomatoes
3 cups turkey or chicken broth
1 cup water
1 can black beans
1 can refried beans
1 cup fresh, frozen, or canned corn
1 package chili seasoning (or your own favorite blend)
½ can Chipotle peppers in adobo sauce (optional)
2 tsp cinnamon
2 tsp garlic powder
1 tsp sweet smoked paprika
to taste, salt and pepper

1. Heat olive oil in a large pot.
2. Add onions and cook until translucent, 5-7 minutes.
3. Add garlic and cook through, an additional 2 minutes.
4. Add turkey and cook through, 8–12 minutes.
5. Season with salt and pepper to taste.
6. Add tomatoes and stir thoroughly.
7. Add lentils, turkey broth, and water.
8. Add spices and Chipotle peppers (if using) and bring to a gentle simmer.
9. Cook for 25–35 minutes, until mixture thickens and lentils are cooked through (it might take longer to ensure lentils are fully cooked).
10. Add black beans and refried beans. Simmer for an additional 5 minutes, until flavors are thoroughly incorporated. If mixture is too thick, add additional water to desired consistency.
11. Season with salt and pepper to taste, and serve.

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Pear and Sweet Corn Soup with Basil- Macadamia Pesto 

Ready time: 1 hour, 20 minutes
Serves 6

Pesto
2 cups lightly packed basil leaves
3 tablespoons macadamia nuts (about 10 nuts)
2 teaspoons fresh lime juice
¼ teaspoon salt
1 tablespoon canola oil
Soup
4 ripe USA Pears, such as Green Anjou, cut into quarters
3 cups corn kernels
1 tablespoon chopped fresh ginger
4 cups water
1 teaspoon salt
1 cup coconut milk

For the pesto:
1. Combine all of the ingredients in a food processor and pulse several times.
2. Scrape down the sides once or twice and continue to pulse until you get a chunky, scoopable pesto. Set aside until the soup is ready.
For the soup:
1. In a medium pot, combine the pears, corn, ginger, and water.
2. Cover and bring to a boil, then reduce to a simmer and cook for 10 minutes. Turn off the heat and allow the soup to cool for 15-20 minutes.
3. Once cooled slightly, puree the soup in a blender in batches until smooth. For a perfectly smooth soup, pass the liquid through a fine mesh strainer.
4. Return the soup to the pot over low heat and stir in the salt and coconut milk. Once warmed through, the soup is ready to serve.
5. To each bowl of soup, add a generous spoonful of the Basil-Macadamia Pesto.

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Filed Under: Family Fun

Staten Island to Albany

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

On January 1, 2019 I was honored to take office as a member of the New York State Assembly. I now have the honor and privilege of representing the people of the South Shore’s 62nd Assembly District in the Capitol.

As I travel each week up the New York State Thruway towards Exit 23, I continually reflect on this new experience as a state legislator. I have made the trip up the thruway several times over the last decade as an education advocate and member of Community Education Council 31. Making this drive up to State Street, looking at the Capitol, and now being a part of New York State history is truly humbling.

Each day I walk the streets of Albany to my office in the Legislative Office building, embracing the rich history. From Eagle Street I look beyond the statue of Civil War Union General Philip Sheridan atop his horse and gaze at the towering front steps of the Capitol.

To the right of the Capitol across Washington Avenue stands the New York State Education Department building — a massive white building with columns that stretch from South Swan Street to Hawk Street. Not far off to the right, down Eagle Street at Pine St., is the Court of Appeals, the highest court in New York State. A white building with six pillars, representing justice.

As I enter the Capitol I stand in awe, admiring the military museum honoring the rich history and those who have served. As I make my way to the Assembly Chamber on the third floor I stare at the astounding architecture of the building. As I step on the “Million Dollar” staircase, I am overcome with nostalgia. It is inspiring to know that I now serve in the same chamber that Theodore Roosevelt served in as a member of Assembly.

Recently, I had the pleasure of joining our Mid-Island Little League heroes as they met the governor. I must admit I was like a tourist, consumed by the experience. We gathered in the “Red Room,” named for the red drapes and rug that originally adorned the room.

The Red Room originally served as the governor’s office until 1885. The room has been used for ceremonial functions ever since. There is even still a secret door that Franklin Delano Roosevelt had installed, which allowed him to travel privately in his wheel chair out of the public eye.

A humbling experience, indeed.

The Legislative Work

The main function of the New York State Senate and Assembly is to introduce and pass legislation. The legislation begins with a bill. The bill will describe the creation, change or amendment to an existing or newly proposed law. Each chamber, the Senate and Assembly, must have an exact copy of each bill introduced. The bills will then be referred to the Chamber Committees that have oversight regarding the specific section and part of the law being addressed.

The Committees will meet and discuss the bills. If it passes the committees in both Chambers it will move to a floor vote in both the Senate and Assembly. If the bill passes both Chambers it will then go to the Governor. The Governor will have the option of signing the bill into law or vetoing it. If The Governor signs, it will become law after a certain timeframe detailed in the bill. If the Governor vetoes the bill it is sent back to both the Senate and Assembly, who can override the Governor’s Veto if 2/3 of the members in each chamber vote to override. If they successfully override the veto the bill will become law.

This year’s session in Albany began in January with a change in the political landscape. For the first time in over a decade the Senate, Assembly and Governor’s Office are controlled by the same political party. This shift has resulted in a rapid legislative agenda. As we enter March, we will focus on passing legislation that will put in place the state budget to comply with the April 1st deadline. The Albany legislative session will run through last week in June.

By Michael Reilly, NYS Assemblyman, former District 31 Community Education Council President and former NYPD Lieutenant.

Filed Under: Family Fun

Sports Season: Preparing for March Madness

October 28, 2019 By Michelle Yannaco

If you have kids who play sports year-round, March usually comes in like a lion.

Basketball, or maybe bowling, is winding down. Baseball, softball and soccer are revving up. Maybe mix in some flag football. You often find yourself going from one game to another, plus practice, fitting in homework and dinner wherever it works, and sometimes having your child change his or her clothes in the car with the frenetic pace of an Indy crew at a pit stop.

There are lots of options to consider. Do you need to dress your child for an indoor or outside activity? Dry weather or wet? Warm or cold? March will throw every condition at you, sometimes changing from day to day. And if you have more than one child, the challenge grows exponentially.

How do you get through it? Here are some spring sports tips to help you survive.

For starters, have a well-stocked vehicle trunk. Make your car a sports locker on wheels. Keep your child’s equipment there — soccer balls, baseball gloves, cleats, etc. Make sure you have a jacket or winter coat (at least through April), as well as gloves or mittens and wool caps for every family member. Store a case of water bottles, which will most likely remain more than cold enough.

For the “fans,” keep a blanket — or, better yet, a sleeping bag to be used as a blanket — to drape over you on the really cold days. Have as many canvas folding chairs as you have family members in the car. Bleachers are not available at every location and metal bleachers can be quite cold in frigid weather. In March, temperatures can range from 30 to 70 degrees; and the wind can affect the real feel, especially if the games are at Miller Field.

Towels to dry off wet athletes or bleachers should be on hand, as should umbrellas and sunscreen. Also, stock sunglasses and a ball cap to keep the sun out of your eyes since the sun sets early in the spring.

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One item we acquired during our youngest’s college baseball career in the northeast were a couple of personal pop-up tents (Under the Weather, for example, available at Dick’s Sporting Goods or Amazon). These convenient tents fit a single chair and will keep parents and grandparents protected from wind, rain and cold. I highly recommend picking up several. They’ve kept us comfortable in many conditions.

Keeping everything in the car will make sure your child and you will be prepared for every weather condition. It’s easier to run to the car to get a sweatshirt if your child is cold than to have to run back home for it.

Spring weather can be tricky in more ways than one, especially when it comes to pop-up thundershowers. Just because you’re experiencing a downpour at home doesn’t mean it’s raining at the field location. Don’t give up on the game being played or practice being held without hearing from the coach, as you run the risk of leaving the team short of players.

Getting your child to games or practices on time can be a challenge, especially if you have more than one child playing more than one sport and you have multiple events scheduled that day. So stay organized. Find parents you can trust to carpool with. And don’t be late to pick up your child. The coach may need to be someplace immediately after practice and shouldn’t have to worry about waiting for you to show up. Make sure you have the coach’s cell phone number and he or she has yours in the event of an emergency.

Keeping track of all the games and practices can be one of your greatest challenges. Trying to wing it will just add anxiety to an already stressful task. It’s important to stay organized.

We always either made, purchased or printed out a calendar with boxes large enough to fill with a listing of who had a game or practice, when it was and where it was. As soon as the game schedules were distributed, the games were entered on the calendar. Practices were filled in as they were announced, and other family commitments, weekdays off from school, etc., were noted on the calendar. We used different color ink depending on which child had the event. This made it easy to see the busiest days at a glance, thus eliminating a lot of the anxiousness. It gave us the feeling that “we got this.”

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There will be days when getting everyone where he or she has to be won’t be possible. There will be conflicts and time challenges, traffic and other commitments. Don’t beat yourself up if you are unable to get a child to one of his or her events. You’re only human. Your child’s sports are activities; they are not jobs. They are playing a sport for the fun of it, and watching your children socializing, learning sports and enjoying themselves can be pleasant for you, too.

Finding the time to make or even sit down to eat dinner also takes planning. Preparing meals in advance and being able to just heat them up after practice or before a game is a great time-saver. There will undoubtedly be nights where you will have to settle for takeout. Little League snack stands are convenient, but eating hot dogs, hamburgers or chicken nuggets every night might not be the healthiest habit. Avoiding field food might be easier said than done when game schedules are at full swing, but planning can help make that possible.

There’s no doubt that March with throw you more than a few challenging situations. But if you follow these steps, you can survive the madness.

By local sportswriter Joe LoVerde, who coached youth sports on Staten Island for nearly 40 years.

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Filed Under: Family Fun, Spring Tagged With: sports

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